Am I Ready for Sex?
by This is something you must decide on your own. No matter weather it is one night stand or you are hoping to have a steady relationship, you must decide weather you are ready for sex. It’s important that you feel good, whatever you decide. Here are some tips that will help you to decide weather you are ready for sex or you should wait for some time.
Is there a good way to find out weather you are ready for sex? It doesn’t matter if you are still a virgin, hopeless romantic or a porn star; the most important thing for you is to be 100 percent certain that your decision is the right one. Sometimes people regret their decisions, but you don’t want that. You want to feel good about choices that you make. It’s a well know truth that there are no rules when it comes to sex. But there sure are some ways that will help you feel self confidante.
Freedom of Choice
No one can force you into having sex. You are ready to have sex once you say that you are ready to have it. No matter weather you want to have it for pure fun or you want to lose your virginity, you have your freedom of choice.
Information
Do you think that you know all about sex? Sexually transmitted diseases are also things you should take into consideration before making your decision. You don’t want to have problems for the rest of your lives just because of one stupid decision. Before you decide weather you are ready for sex, you should inform yourselves about pregnancy, contraception, condoms, and everything you might think that is important. Remember that there is no point in pretending like you know all about it. It’s perfectly natural for you to have some questions.
Communication
Communication is vital. You should be ready to talk to your partner about everything. That includes sex. If you don’t feel comfortable talking to your partner about sex, maybe you are not ready to have it. Maybe you are just being shy and maybe you are not yet ready to have sex. Either way, try talking to some of our friends about this. This way you will be able to hear another opinion that will come handy. Just remember that if you want an honest opinion, you must be honest yourselves.
Emotions
Sometimes people have sex just for fun. No emotions are involved. This is also a free choice of some people. But usually, sex is connected to emotions. You need to decide what this sex is going to mean for you. Is it something you want to remember for the rest of your life or you just want to have sex because it feels great? No matter the reason, you need to know how it will make you feel after. Remember that it is not a smart thing to rush into something that you don’t know how will it make you feel at the end.
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Post CommentHelloSiti
On July 5, 2009 at 2:47 am
There are too many repetitions of the word “sex” but fortunately, I didn’t feel bored when I was reading it because I believe that this article was built by yourself words.
Christian
On July 20, 2009 at 3:02 am
Masturbation is a grave sin because it corrupts the heart. “the root of sin is in the heart of man, in his free will, accroding to the teaching of the Lord: for out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, fornication, theft, false wittness, slander. These are what defiles man. But in the heart also resides charity, the source of the good and the pure works, which sin wounds” [CCC-1853]. Jesus said a man who even lusts for another woman in his heart has already commited adultery.
The reason the Lord brings that out is because through our free will we make the moral decision to do good or not to do good. And I don’t know about you but many the time as a (junior man, if you know what I mean) masturbation was accompanied by fantasy. Excessively vivid images of young girls who I definitely had no intention of marrying. These images lied deep in my thoughts.
Now, transfer that same scenario to a married man. Is the married man who is masturbating thinking only about his wife and the hope that a beautiful child will come from this act of love or is he perhaps thinking about his best friends wife who looked incredably gorgeous this evening and kept laughing at his jokes.
Now the husband may never actually touch that woman or even speak to her about how he felt that night but nevertheless the fantasy and the decision of the free will to entertain that fantasy especially while masturbating is real. It is a reality of heart. And this kind of reality is intrinsically evil and constitutes an act of adultry.
There is no doubt that continuous images and fantasies of other woman will only lead to deterioration in a married relationship and a distorted perspective on the sexual act in general.
And I also recommend Theology of The Body by John Paul II and the many dvds and books by Christopher West who explains it so well.
HelloSiti
On July 23, 2009 at 8:56 pm
Who is talking about masturbation? How can Jesus be a master about sex if he never marries someone?