Amazing Gift to Husband and Wife Ever
by The relationship between the spouses is not confined to a relationship of a leader and subject. In fact there are two aspects of this relationship; one of leadership and the other of love and attachment.
The wife’s adornment lies in her husband in a sense that people won’t normally cherish evil thoughts about her.
Prohibition Possessions
Both of the husband and wife enjoy individual ownership of their respective possessions. It is cruel of the husband to utilize his wife’s goods without his satisfaction. By satisfaction we mean that there are very persuasive signs which convince one that the owner is totally satisfied and cordially happy.
The reality of “permission with the happiness of the heart” is that the second person also has the ability to refuse. In other words, at times the person from whom permission to utilize a certain item etc. is being sought, is unable to refuse. Hence, his permission is not really considered as satisfaction and happiness of the heart.
Furtively Combining Husband’s Wealth
Some women furtively stash away their husband’s money over the years on the pretext that it would be of some assistance if he has to die first. For instance, if he gives her 40 Dollars a month for household expenses, she spends 20 and hoards the remaining 20. If the husband dies before her, she considers herself the exclusive owner of the entire amount and she considers herself the exclusive owner of the entire amount and she does not even inform anyone about it. Remember, it is incorrect to do this. The other heirs are also entitled to that sum.
Limitations Spending from Husband’s Wealth
Some women, whilst spending the husband’s wealth, feel he will give permission later on. At times the husband remains silent whilst at times he gets furious which eventually leads to heated argument and domestic feuds. Therefore, until and unless the husband does not give explicit permission or she is not convinced of his permission, she should not make any donations (or spend it in any other way)
However, if it is something trivial and the wife is sure that her husband wouldn’t mind, it is fined (permissible). This would apply obviously to the beggars and destitute.
All of the above factors are the most amazing gift to husband and wife ever.
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