Aphrodisiacs for Single Women on The Dating Scene
by The dating scene has changed. Sometimes back, young men attracted single women by writing beautiful poetry, singing for them at the dance, buying a bar of chocolate or some other mundane piece as a gift. Not so any more, most single women out there worship money, fame, power, expensive cars and the fact that you are already taken!
Forget oysters, forget poetry, forget chocolate, and forget your great looks. They no longer work with today’s single women. Men like Denzel Washington and Christiano Ronaldo do not attract single women because they are handsome, they do not attract all the ladies in the room because they are tall and handsome, no; there are a host of other aphrodisiacs on the modern day love scene!
a) Money – Most single women have something for money. They will love you, they will cherish the moments spent with you, but a time reaches when discovery is made that love can’t bring food on the table! It is at that time that she will abandon you, it’s at that time that you will remain a mere statistic in her life, a bad dream she would rather forget. Not all women love money, but those who will love you for loves sake are very, very few for money is simply an aphrodisiac!
b) Power – Power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely but not so for most women. They worship power and will do anything to be associated with the mighty. They will want to be associated with the powerful and later claim that behind every successful man there is a woman when…Power is an aphrodisiac that attracts women like flies and because men know this, they have used women to bring down the mighty, remember the twin biblical myths of Samson and Delilah and that of Adam and Eve.
c) Fame – Do you know why your girlfriend is not safe loitering near John Terry or Tiger Woods? Its not because they are serial rapists, it’s because they are famous and fame is an aphrodisiac, at least where most single women are concerned. You remain a nobody until you smile and say, hey ladies, I am Chang Tsu, the best selling author of Abracadabra! That is when hell breaks lose and the very eyes that had ignored you roll in appreciation and suddenly all of them want to be associated with you, and then they start quoting from the book whose title you mentioned, wanting to impress. Why? Fame is an aphrodisiac!
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Post CommentLoveDoctor
On July 18, 2010 at 2:53 pm
There are a lot of gold diggers out there who won’t go out with a guy if he doesn’t drive a nice Benz or has money, but not every woman falls in this category. Women should also have standards and not accept crumbs either. Personally, I wouldn’t date a cheap guy. If we are in an exclusive relationship, he should at least be able to invite me to dinner at a nice restaurant and pay. In my case, a guy with money doesn’t really impress me because going out to dinner every weekend is a tradition in my house. If I want a nice pair of shoes or fancy jewelry, I just go to the store and buy it. As for the wedding ring, yes I do agree that married men seem more attractive to single women. But don’t be a home wrecker. Women should never pursue a married man. There are plenty of fish in the sea. It’s true that some men will take their rings off and lie to the women about their marital status and if this happens, get out of it as soon as possible. A great article once again.
Michal Dorcak
On July 18, 2010 at 3:57 pm
Hopefully, not all women are gold diggers. Otherwise I am scr*wed as I don’t like that kind of people.
yes me
On July 18, 2010 at 4:50 pm
I’ll sit this one out Big guy he he me thinks there be sparks in this here post ha ha
pattiann
On July 18, 2010 at 5:32 pm
Good article. I sat in garages 9 years and dated my husband 9 years before he proposed. So, in a way you can say a guy working on a car is an aphrodesiac to me
LoveDoctor
On July 18, 2010 at 6:08 pm
I was thinking of oysters when I read the title.
sloanie
On July 18, 2010 at 6:19 pm
Take me back to the 60s, all you need is love!!
Tulan
On July 18, 2010 at 7:12 pm
Oh, now come on. Women aren’t that stupid. I’ll give you maybe 25 percent are as you describe, but I doubt that many. Women still love honest honorable men. They don’t have to be famous or rich.
LiteraryPrincess
On July 18, 2010 at 7:28 pm
This article was funny to me only because there are a lot of women like this in the world. Although what these women need to realize a lot of times is that money often goes to a man’s head, and if you do get a man with money he will expect you to do whatever he as your “god”, thinks you should do. If he tells you to hop on one leg and bark like a dog, well Fluffy…speak. Wow…
…It’s just not that serious.
Emmie
On July 18, 2010 at 8:07 pm
whoa this was a really interesting article. Whilst i am not in any of those categories personally, as i am sure a fair amount of women won’t be. I am pretty sure that there are women out there who do date for money and fame and will only go out with men who have the mercs etc.. in my opinion that is all pretty sad, because behind the money, car and fame, you still have to love the person you are with, and if it’s for those reasons- those women, and men sometimes, are pathetic.
Great article by the way
Emmie
LCM Linda
On July 18, 2010 at 8:22 pm
The fat wallet makes me smile. When I was a student helper, with my classmate seating next to me, a computer student threw me his wallet. I didn’t open it to take a look but passed it to the computer dept. staff so that he could give it back to its owner. What a good old day.
The fat wallet is full of credit cards nowadays.
VTech
On July 18, 2010 at 8:35 pm
Good Post
Anuradha Ramkumar
On July 18, 2010 at 11:07 pm
I agree that many women are like this, but I’m not the one.
Jimmy Shilaho
On July 18, 2010 at 11:22 pm
Hey Ladies, don’t take it to hurt, like I said, sometimes I write to get you talking, I don’t like a quiet Triond. Thanks for all your comments.
neet
On July 18, 2010 at 11:51 pm
Great write………and this definately explains why boys try too hard to get money, power and fame…….its sth so badly stuck in their mind……..sort of insecurity.
Girls still beleive in the magic of love.(Well, I do!!!)
Christine Ramsay
On July 19, 2010 at 1:57 am
You don’t paint women in a very good light, do you? Fortunately we are not all like that. This is a very humerous look at modern dating. I would love to know what men are looking for.
Christine
Erin Miller
On July 19, 2010 at 2:09 am
Interesting…
webseowriters
On July 19, 2010 at 3:46 am
very nice and well written post
gaby7
On July 19, 2010 at 6:14 am
Poignant!
Starpisces
On July 19, 2010 at 6:45 am
hmmm, very interesting..there may be some women who look for all these criteria, but they will forget about them when they meet the right person along the way, as not all rich men want to choose them too, haha..
Btw, when you mentioned fat wallets, sometimes may be just some nonsense inside, or maybe some lottery tickets inside and they may also become rich, who knows, haha.
Starpisces
On July 19, 2010 at 6:47 am
oops, double comments, please delete one, and also this one, haha.
K64FUNNY
On July 19, 2010 at 10:09 am
INTERESTING
nayabingi
On July 19, 2010 at 11:29 am
women, women, women
Aileen Tecson
On July 19, 2010 at 11:35 pm
A kind heart outweigh the rest..
Rosettaartist1
On August 4, 2011 at 2:22 am
Gold doesn’t interest me. Commitment and a ring does it for me, part from him being a young handsome black guy. No money but is a hard worker is ok by me. I never understand women going for lazy losers who won’t ever support them or marry them but will happily father their kids and not support them. That’s too crazy to be called love. It’s more like a sick dependency to me.
Joe Ram
On August 4, 2011 at 4:11 am
interesting
Raj the Tora
On August 4, 2011 at 9:23 am
Thanks for coming back to Triond big brother. It is true that fat wallet broadens the lady’s eyes and arms to embrace
Everybody have their own weakness, just as men would ogle on other girls, even if they have the most adorable and beautiful woman besides them, just for them.
LoveDoctor
On August 4, 2011 at 11:12 am
A guy who is married or has a girlfriend is a big turn-off for me. The problem with these types of women is that it sort of gives them an ego-boost if they’re able to conquer a man whose taken. I don’t even think it’s about them wanting to be with that man. It’s all about being competitive and seeing if they can actually take another woman’s man away.
papaleng
On August 4, 2011 at 2:01 pm
Good points here, but I may say not all women go for these stuff.
SharifaMcFarlane
On August 4, 2011 at 5:12 pm
Sometimes I wonder what relationships have come to.
Aiyanna.
On August 5, 2011 at 2:13 am
Such women are bitches and should be put in a gunny bag and thrown in the sea. They will spread their legs any how and anywhere for month. They are totties.
MINISTER MARLENE SISTA REAL
On August 5, 2011 at 12:18 pm
Another awesome read. Women need not take offense if they are NOT diggers of Gold.