Are You Giving Up On Your Marriage Too Soon?

The word marriage is scared and revered, it is a word from the throne of God, but many of those involved in the institution called marriage are either finding true happiness or are undergoing hard times, is this misfortune causing you to give up on your marriage too soon after saying “ I do”?

From the day you pronounced the two words “I do” you are know more the same, as the trails will be coming to test your resolve. In learning to tackle the many tests that will come your way, you will learn the bitter sweet part of marriage, but if you allow the tests to overwhelm you then you will find bitterness slowly but steadily creep into your marriage and you will find yourself giving up on your marriage too soon. Allowing bitterness to come into your home will further contaminate certain areas that were otherwise happy areas and you find yourself blaming anyone that as much as makes a comment, for bitter people blame anyone close to them for their  problems. Now why give up on your marriage too soon?

Bad decisions: oh yes one of the banes of giving up on your marriage too soon is the effect of the bad decision that was made before the marriage kick started by you or your partner. Before the decision to marry ever came did you see yourself able to live with that person without any problems, did you sit down to critically analyze the many draw backs you noticed, educationally, financially and other salient points that were coming to the surface as the relationship progressed?. Did you snoop around happy couples that have lived together for years that you so envy to ask them the secret of there success?

 The sooner you get it into your system that marriage is not a bed of roses but a training institute that your certificate is determined by the number of years you are able to spend with your partner, which is forever till death, then you will begin to enjoy some comfort in your marriage and not give up too soon on your marriage.

Another reason why many are giving up on their marriages is the issue of wealth. Money is the best and worst enemy of man. Depending of which side of the divide you stand on, money can make or mar your marriage. When you enter a marriage due to the attraction of money you will run asunder when the glitter of money evaporates into thin air, and you suddenly come down to earth that you have been living in a dream world, the only other alternative is to give up on your marriage. That is why most marriages of Million couples most often than not end up in court cases which is not what the good books tells us about marriage.

Celebrity couples are often in the habit of giving up on their marriages too soon, all in the guise of loosing there star status due to the changing lifestyles that now find themselves facing and inevitably they head to the courts for a dissolution of their marriages which most times are like acting out scripts on a movie set. They feel hemmed in by their marriage to the other partner and want out almost instantly, realizing that the partner is not the perfect one for them, but that partner was perfect before marriage.

The great institution ordained by the almighty God to be a holy and beautiful thing is fast turning into an avenue for some to make money and quick too, as many laws of some countries allow the woman to go Scot free while the man pays the penalty all through his life time to the woman.

Take time to sit and see where the marriage joy you were enjoying went wrong and call the attention of your partner to it , work out things before it goes beyond your control or that of your partner.

Take time to discuss issues with your mate for the good book calls your partner your “mate” and as a mate you have equal say in whatever goes on within the confines of your established home, office or any area that joins both of you together.

Mostly if it can be avoided, never listen to third party gossips, they kill.

Don’t give up on your marriage too soon, something good is coming out from it and you will be the better for it. To your joy