Are You Ready to Marry?
by Some of the questions which should be taken into consideration by both man and woman before saying yes for marriage.
These are some of the questions which should be asked from one’s own self before agreeing for marriage.
- The first question should be whether you are compatible with your partner or not. You should check if you and your partner share the same interests, values and outlook towards life. And the most important question should be whether you like your partner as a person and not just as a passing romantic interest.
- You should make sure that you are ready to commit to your partner and to the marriage. You should also be emotionally stable and mature enough for a commitment that comes with no guarantees.
- Check yourself if you are ready to take the responsibility of another person. And also make sure that you are ready and able to start a family and take care of it.
- Ask yourself if you are financially secure and stable with long terms plans
- Last but not the least , you should be very clear in your mind about the social and family set up of your partner
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Post CommentLindalulu
On October 28, 2008 at 10:57 am
Some good advice. Are you married?
Shreya Mishra
On October 28, 2008 at 11:50 am
Not yet, but the date is fixed and the ceremony is on 23rd of Nov. Some thought that the child whose photos I uploaded was mine but it was my brother’s. Anyways, I am very excited about my marriage.
Athlyn Green
On October 28, 2008 at 12:43 pm
Many people get married without realizing the level of commitment needed to make things work. Your article should prove helpful.
BC Doan
On October 28, 2008 at 1:06 pm
You have listed so many areas that should be top priority! Also, congrat on your upcoming marriage! Be happy always!
Ruby Hawk
On October 28, 2008 at 2:22 pm
Great information for those comtemplating marriage. Best wishes to you on your upcoming marriage.I wish you every happiness.Ruby
C A Johnson
On October 28, 2008 at 6:08 pm
Great advice, neelam. Congratulations! I hope you have a happy marriage.
valli
On October 28, 2008 at 8:37 pm
Great advice, Neelam.
swapna
On October 29, 2008 at 1:30 am
really nice points, Wish u a Happy Married Life…..
Anne Lyken Garner
On October 29, 2008 at 7:13 am
What about love, Neelam? Love is very important. You can have the others, but if you’re not in love, one day you’ll wake up feeling that you can no longer live with that person who gets along with your family, is financially secure, is responsible, and shares your interests.
One day all that would not be enough if you are not in love with each other. There always will be that magic missing. Then… it may happen, you’ll fall in love, but it may not be with the person to whom you’re married.
I wish you a very happy married life.
Best wishes
Anne
Soph
On October 29, 2008 at 10:06 am
Couples really do need to be aware of the high level of commitment required to make a marriage work and not reason to themselves that if it doesn’t work out that they can just get a divorce.
neelam pandey
On October 29, 2008 at 10:42 am
thanks anne, you are absolutely correct. love is the nucleous of all the relationships…and thank god…i am also going to be married with a person whom i actually love. anyways, i have discussed about this element in the very first point where i say that our realtionship shouldn’t be just a romantic pass time but something really romantic.
neelam pandey
On October 29, 2008 at 10:56 am
i am sorry…in the above comment…by nucleous…i mean nucleus…thanks for ur consideration.
lawryxcon
On October 29, 2008 at 6:35 pm
I thought it was excellent. Great detail and good information.
aisaellis
On October 30, 2008 at 4:24 pm
oh that’s very sweet. i am married now and i like your article
Judy Sheldon
On October 30, 2008 at 10:42 pm
Beautifully put, and God bless you in your upcoming marriage. Congratulations. I wish you much happiness.
Unofre Pili
On November 5, 2008 at 6:41 pm
I must remember this when I get married. Good Luck Neelam, I wish you and your future family all the happiness that the world can offer.
Vikram Sethi
On November 6, 2008 at 3:07 pm
You Are good in maintaining relations so you will be able to win this battle.Nice One
tilted
On January 5, 2009 at 2:54 am
Ever wish you had read something years ago.This is it.