Attracting Someone

It may be that you have something that somebody wants. If you’re in the city government there will be a person from a company that wants a contract done and will ask for a favor. If it is a childhood friend they may ask for a favor in return especially if they know that you are a giving person. Some are more giving then others but then there is a law of attraction that goes beyond the real and gets to people who hope for certain arrangements and encounters. Those may happen and often do characterizing a law of attraction.

One doesn’t want to think that thinking negatively will attract like sources but if you do think badly about things you are bound to attract other people who will share your disposition. That will further affect your positive outlook on life because so much of your precious time will be spent rehashing what negative qualities you both knew. Friends who have actually been doing this can be sure of being isolated from their positive thinking friends this way.

Then commiserating with someone else will steer you in a life of being pulled down by pessimistic thoughts. You will also not want to be attracted to someone who radiates that bad energy; otherwise you might find yourself having to share his negative views and being supportive of an nonconstructive atmosphere. All that will only contribute to seeing life negatively; you will turn away more positive people and won’t be at peace with your surroundings.

There are those who will say that selling the thought of being positive, selling a book on how to be a millionaire is bound to bring on money and people will buy into that material plan as a solution to getting rich. Obviously one wants to be rich to be happy and that does not mean that happiness will follow you once your paycheck grows, it will however offer economic freedom on tough times and that could lead to happiness. 

To remove yourself from a cycle of negative vibes one has to ask questions about what you want in life; a person who wants anything and everything is bound to meet up with troublemakers that will dishearten the spirit.

Since our reality is exclusively subjective, we judge and experience things on the way we think and feel our experiences can be stated as some form of waking dream from which we never really wake up to see how real our thoughts are. One can see part of the process by making a value statement on a situation, based on his observation and then notice that another observer will make an equally valid statement according to his point of view. Whose opinion will then be taken as real is the real real question.