Basic Guide to Date Japanese Girls at Nomikai

You able to know more Japanese girls by attending to Nomikai. What actually is Nomikai? Nomikai like a party or gathering among group of friend , student or co-worker that often held at cafe or bar. This consider a right spot to meet new friend and to knowing each other.

What you should do when you spot your type of girl at Nomikai? Here will show you few tips that you need to take as reference so you able to get a phone number from “your cup of tea”, or better yet, you can win a date with her on the weekend.

At Nomikai it a quiet competitive situation as not only you that have chance to talk to her , other guys also have chances to talk to her as well and have her interested in them. Nomikai usually held on restaurant with people sit on a big table and what’s important here is that where you should sit? Normally, your seat is already assigned and you not allow to change your seat as you like. Try not to sit next to her. This what usually happen when everyone talking about certain topic, cooperative Japanese girls who don’t like left alone, tend not to look at the person next to them. Is better to sit across her.

The next tips, what you should talk about? At Nomikai, everyone is drinking, eating and have fun together. How you actually can start a interesting topic with you and her can have a long talk? The key is do not start asking her conservative question like how old are you? where do you stay? Those are some boring old question that her not interested with and waste your opportunity to talk to her again. Here are some phrases that you could use for a start. After using these phrases you might want to go ahead and ask her name and start introduce each other.

What you want to drink next? (Tsugi wa nani nomu?)

Great observation require. You need to take a look on her glass whether it’s already empty and before she notice & order other drink take an opportunity to offer yourself to order her a drink. This can be a good start for a conversation and after this you can introduce yourself to her afterwards.

How is the food? (Sore oishii?)

Ask her how is the food that she eating. If she said good then you can go ahead and ask “Can i try it?” (Tabete miteii?) else you can start a conversation with her on what the food that she like and continue about your favorite foods.

You been here before? (Koko ni kitakoto aru?)

Well, this is quite a simply question that everyone should know. If she said “NO”, then you follow up by ask where she usually hang out for a drink. (itsumo wa dokode nomu?) then you can give your own opinion on what is your favorite bars that you love to hang out. If the conversation goes well, you could try to ask her out for a drink like “I could take you there sometime, if you want to. (kondo tsurate itte ageyouka?)”

Do remember to introduce yourself after above phrases. You can refer here for more tips on how and what is the topic you can talk to Japanese girls for the first date. If you still need to know more info on how to date and understand more Japanese girls , feel free to click HERE for more detail info.