Basic Needs of a Woman

1st Time Moments and Adventure- Women love first time moments… Women love to have a good time!  So be creative and do your research!  What are your interests?  What are her interests?  Where has she never been before?  What food has she never eaten before?  What has she always wanted to do and never had the chance to do?  Again instant hero…  It is allowing yourself to open, expand and stretch your mind to new adventures, fun and memorable moments!  Memories can last a lifetime!  Decide to make them good ones!

Treat her with Delicacy- Women want to know they are special!  She wants to know you are thinking of her when she is not around.  Show up at her work and surprise her.  Take her on a picnic at the park.  Little things count in the biggest of ways…  Treat her out to a day of pampering – pay for her to get her nails done, her hair done, a pedicure, a massage…  Pamper her for a day!  Take her shopping and pick out a favorite outfit.

 She Wants a Family Man- Women want a man that knows how to spend time with the family.  To a woman her family is most important to her.  Go on vacation!  Go to historic places!  Teach each other good values!  With children, the parents are to set the tone… not the child!  Build on the circumstance and make it fun!  It will be whatever your perspective makes it out to be…

A Family of Faith- Women are impressed with men that are thinking ahead…  Women are impressed with men that know where they get their Guidance, Strength and Faith from.  Don’t be afraid to be spiritual and talk about your belief in God and His works in your life.  In biblical studies the man is to be the head of the household.  The man is to encourage his significant other to put her faith in God and to live the life God had planned for her.  Women are to be respectful and supportive of their husbands and household.  Women are the glue that holds the family together…

Gentleness and Kindness- Listen and learn from the song ‘Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman’ by Bryan Adams…  Seriously that’s a good song!  When in communication with her be kind, be patient, be gentle with her.  Treat her with delicacy…  She is fragile!   

A Sense of Security- Women want to know they have someone to run to.  They want to know someone will be there assist in life and monetarily.  You do not have to have a lot of money although it is a plus. Money is not everything.  Enough to be able to leave a legacy, be comfortable and to be able to achieve goals and dreams.              

Little Things Count A Lot- It is those little actions, moments, and memories that build endurance, trust, strength, hope, faith, and love…  Hold onto them and build from them.  Don’t disregaurd them.  If she means anything to you at all cherish those little things that count a lot.  Without them there will be no beginning and no history!  So make it count!