Basic Tips on How to Get a Girlfriend

Before I start this article, I’m going to let you know this is not a surefire way to get a girlfriend. These are just some tips that have worked for me. I’m just trying to pass off my knowledge.

Clean Yourself Up

Look presentable. Guys, if you have long, dirty hair, either wash it or cut it. If there’s a girl you like, ask her what she prefers, without really using yourself in the question. If you have zits or acne, get proactive or other skin creams. If you’re overweight, try and exercise, and things like that. Wear nice clothes, not sweatpants and the undershirt you wore yesterday.

Confidence and Friendship

There is no such thing as out of your league, don’t be afraid to try and talk with a girl. Never ask her out at first, without even talking to her, that usually ends badly. Be a girl’s friend, and be nice and don’t be awkward. Know when her birthday is, and such. Be a nice person to her and her friends. (Note: being mean to her friends can end up in them saying bad things about you to the girl, this is very bad.)

Flirting

Flirting is not for everyone, especially when you and the girl you like aren’t already close friends. Some flirting techniques are: Talk to a girl about other guys, and how she feels about them, if she speaks badly about them, then ask her what she thinks of you, or something of the like. If she responds well, she probably likes you. Another technique is getting more touchy with her. (No, not like groping, that is probably a bad idea…) put your hand on her shoulder and hug her and stuff. this is usually the best way, I’ve found, because if she lets you do stuff like that, then she probably likes you.

Asking Her Out

Do this in person. Take her to a fun spot you like going to and just ask her about how she feels about you. She should get the hint. Don’t get discouraged if she acts shy about it, because that usually just means she’s surprised about it and doesn’t know how to respond. If she asks for time to give you the answer. Just tell her that you want to know what she feels, and not her friends, because “I need time” Usually means “I need to talk to my friends about this”. If she says no, still try and be her friend, just so other girls don’t think badly of you. If she said yes, congratulations! You’ve got yourself a new girlfriend!

Axe / Other Deodorant

No. Just no. all girls I know says they hate the smell of it and everything. You don’t need to use this stuff if you take showers regularly, and use anti-persperent.

Don’t Be Awkward

Try and have some social skill. Talk to her with confidence, and try to make her laugh. Being smart is good, but don’t bore her with random facts you saw on Wikipedia.

I hope this has helped! Now go out and get her!