Becoming More Attractive to The Opposite Sex: A Guide For Men

Looks

Not all men are blessed with devilishly good looks.  In fact, many aren’t naturally attractive.  But women do appreciate this.  Your best bet is to work with what you have. Don’t copy your mates hairstyle just because all the ladies comment on it. What suits him probably won’t suit you.  Here are a few tips to make the most of what you have:

• Find a hairstyle that suits you.  If you’ve had the same cut since you were 11 years old its time for a change.  If your mum still cuts your hair its time for a change.  If you’ve been growing your hair since you were 11 years old its time for a change! Unfortunately, that floppy haired, all over your face look only really suits teenage boys.  As you get older you want to look more sophisticated and clean.  The short back and sides is a favourite amongst most men and is a very safe option.  You may want to try something a bit different.  If you go for the longer look, make sure you get it trimmed regularly as it can start to lose shape.  If you have a medium-length hairstyle use gel to tame the top.  If you grow your hair longer than your shoulders, you begin to diminish the number of girls who will find you attractive, as some girls do not find long hair on a man attractive.  Other girls however, love it!  Here are some examples of smart, attractive hairstyles:

• Take care of your face.  When shaving, use a foam that is for sensitive skin (even if your skin is not particularly sensitive), as it reduces those tiny red spots you can get occasionally.  There’s also nothing wrong with slapping a bit of moisturiser on.  It doesn’t make you any less manly and, in fact, soft skin on a guy’s face is a real turn on!
• Keep facial piercings (eyebrow, lip etc) to a minimum once you hit 30, unless you are going out. Remember the sophisticated hairstyle we talked about earlier?  No point having one when you have a ring going through your nose!  Even if women used to love your piercings, that was only because they were younger.  Older women are looking for people to settle down with- safe people.  Piercings can scream rebel.
• Your lips should be soft.  I’m not saying walk around with chapstick on all day (although it’s a good idea during the winter).  A little trick is to gently brush over your lips with your toothbrush before brushing your teeth. Us girlies do it all the time

Body

It may surprise you that not every woman wants a guy with a ripped bod.  In fact it can make some women feel insecure.  Call us stupid but we worry our looks don’t match up to yours and you’ll run a mile at the first sight of our jelly belly.  For most women, a toned body is the perfect body.  You don’t have to overdo it.