Being Alone vs. Multiple Relationships

There are fears to conquer and one is the fear of being alone but with concentration being alone can work you to your benefit especially if you have been influenced to join all kinds of social groups that take your ability to focus, away. I like to be positive about being alone; it isn’t so bad when you consider that so many people stay together because they are afraid to part company.

Why then be in a couple situations that you don’t want from the beginning? Why is it that people have to sacrifice their years with others they no longer love? There still is the stigma of separation among certain ethnic groups and the fear of what people think. The again who is to say that those people are perfect in what they do?

An enriching life can be kept with good friendship especially if the sex is no there or there is only sex but no emotional commitment from a loyal partner. There are so many multiple couplings out there that who knows how stable they will be in the long run. Who knows how earnest the couple members are when declaring their love for one another. I would rather be alone than be just a passing participant which is where I think multiple relationships eventually lead to.

Many on campus kids don’t want commitment with one person but rather would have a choice of several they can work with. I wonder how realistic this is. Loyalty must be a big issue that comes up often in these multiple set ups. Are the affairs worth the headaches? Maybe being alone until you can commit to one individual is the answer.