A shy person can have a difficult time dating. The fear of being turned down or making a fool of themselves is overwhelming for the shy person. So, instead they will turn away and not ask the person out on a date. If the shy person is being asked out they tend to have a hard time saying no. They are so surprised anyone even noticed them that they react quickly and say yes. Here are some dating tips for the shy type.

1. Avoid strong personalities

   If a person asks you out and they tend to be aggressive then say no. If you know them from work or school and know that they seem strong minded and don’t like someone who tells them no, still tell them no. Do not accept since it could be more damaging to your shyness than anything else. You will find yourself in a relationship that you will not be able to tell the person no or give them your opinion. Their strong personality can diminish yours. Sometimes it could lead to physical or mental abuse. Accept a date with someone closer to your personality.

2. Avoid phone calls

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   If you want to ask someone out do not do it by phone. Many times you will choke and since most people have caller ID they will know it is you calling. Then the person will think you are strange or odd more than just shy.

3. Talk to the person face to face

   If you cannot find the courage to ask the person out in person what you can do is write it down and hand it to her/him, but remain present. Do not have someone ask for you and do not leave a note on their desk either.

4. Double date

   This can be very helpful for the real shy person. Having a friend nearby assisting you on what to say or do can be very comforting. You can also go out in a group.

5. Be comfortable in your environment
   

   Be sure that the environment of the place you are going to is comfortable to you or is familiar. This will take one less worry off your hands.

6. Use your friends to your benefit

   If they know someone you like they can introduce you to the person. Friends can also introduce you to those you don’t know, but they are certain that the person is good for you.