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Blind Date Basics You Must Know

Blind dates have gotten bad press in the past. The key is to just have fun with it! Here’s how to survive one, while keeping your sanity intact.

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  1. Keep an open mind – You’ve never seen this person so don’t get ahead of yourself and imagine your knight in shining armour! You may be setting yourself up for disappointment. If it helps, imagine you’re gonna meet the ugliest dude ever.
  2. Keep it short but sweet! – Arrange to meet for lunch or coffee and not at the cinema, or for a romantic candlelight dinner! This makes it easier for you to scoot off in case you’re not interested in him.
  3. Have an escape plan - It’s important to have a solid escape plan, in case things go awry. Get a friend to call you 30 minutes into the date; if you don’t like him you can make an excuse and leave. If you do like him, tell your friend you’ll call her back.
  4. Breathe and be yourself! – When meeting someone for the first time, it pays to be yourself! While first impressions are important, don’t feel pressured to wear a sundress on a Sunday when you’re normally clad in jeans. He wants to know who you are; not who you think he wants you to be!
  5. Better safe than sorry – Make sure someone knows exactly where and when you’re meeting Take extra precaution if the person is a complete stranger. Also, make sure someone knows your whereabouts, his name, and how long the date scheduled for.
  6. Let’s go dutch – State from the start you intend to pay for half of everything. You may not want feel like you owe the guy anything. Good for you if he foots the bill.
  7. Saying goodbye – If you are interested in him make sure he knows it and tell him you will cal If you aren’t interested in seeing him again, me no plans about meeting up again. It’s better to honest than stringing him along to false hopes.
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  1. Lostash

    On May 10, 2009 at 7:11 am


    Seems like good guidance to me!

  2. Joie Schmidt

    On May 10, 2009 at 12:41 pm


    Good article, nice advice*

    Blessings.

    Sincerely,

    -Liane Schmidt.

  3. George W Whitehead

    On May 10, 2009 at 2:10 pm


    Great article Matt but I’m afraid it’s way too late to advise me!

  4. Juancav

    On May 10, 2009 at 10:17 pm


    I´ll take on your advices.

  5. C. S. Robins

    On May 10, 2009 at 10:26 pm


    These are some great tips! I wish I had read this before my first blind date experience!

  6. Joni Keith

    On May 12, 2009 at 4:20 pm


    Good advice.

  7. spiritwalker

    On May 15, 2009 at 7:30 pm


    very good advice. thank you

  8. Juliet Christie Murray

    On May 19, 2009 at 10:03 pm


    Well thought out article

  9. CutestPrincess

    On June 3, 2009 at 5:41 am


    this is very important… thanks for sharing!

  10. Travis

    On February 26, 2010 at 9:42 pm


    You are an idiot. You need to go through grammar school before you give advice.

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