Blonde vs. Brunettes
As a dark haired girl, I found myself with a blonde girl.
I do not see what it is that men see in blonde-haired women, true some are very pretty but they are just girls like me. I have been called pretty and men at a bar will always hit the girl with the blonde hair before even looking at me. Some of my best friends are blonde-haired women but it is frustrating. I remember one night at our local hangout, every single girl there was with a man. Nevertheless, not one them hit on my two brunette friends.
We just stood there with our drinks, looking around for some fun but nothing. We even showed our boobs at one point we were so drunk, but even that did not actually get us any men. My friend and I compared bodies with Lynn, one of our blonde friends one time. Lynn is the same height as me five foot five we measured our height, and then got naked. I have to admit we were a little drunk at the time. So my friend Chantal measured us, first around the boobs and then our nipples, mine are big and dark.
Lynn’s breasts are the same size as mine, but hers are slightly firmer than mine, but that will not matter to a man. Her nipples are the same size as mine and her breasts look identical on her chest to my own. I do not see what she has, that I do not. She is by her own admission not any prettier than I am; in fact, she said she was a little jealous of my looks. My waist is actually half an inch smaller but my ass is an inch wider. Lynn loves my legs and said if she were a man, she would go nuts over me. In fact she said she was glad that she did not have to compete with me for a man, she was not sure she could win against me.
That is all fine and dandy, but that will not find me a man, and I cannot dye my hair blonde because I am too dark skinned for that to look good. The only thing I ended up doing that night was seducing Lynn, who is my girlfriend. I guess I will just have to stay single because when I do get a boyfriend he always ends up cheating on me with one of my blonde girlfriends.
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brunettesareprettierimho
On July 19, 2008 at 4:21 am
I don’t get it either girlfriend. Most blondes are not even natural, they’re brunettes LOL. My experience has been that natural blondes are less attractive than brunettes. Look at the hot movie stars. The hottest ones are NOT blonde. They are brunettes. I think blondes are popular because of the porn industry, to be honest. When men see the blonde hair they think Jenna Jamison or one of those hos. Even though I’m black, I can relate. Light complexioned black women get more action than chocolate colored black girls, even if the chocolate girls in question are as attractive. It’s unfair. But luckily men were evolved to have a variety of tastes. You just have to find the guys who prefer brunettes. They’re out there.
misssophia
On December 31, 2008 at 4:39 pm
In my girl group- 2 of us are brunettes, and 2 are blondes. I’d say the brunettes get a little more attention!!! I am half chinese so more exotic looking, my best friend is a stunning bleach blonde and modelled in several magazines… When we go out it literally boils down to a mans personal preferance. Some guys tell me they have a ‘thing’ for chinese/mixed race girls, other guys have a weakness for a cute blonde.
You will meet a man who thinks your physical appearence is his ideal. In the mean time don’t get wasted and flash your boobies!!!
mike
On February 23, 2009 at 9:33 pm
I’m a brunette man, blondes are last on my list but the majority are easy.
Courtney
On April 6, 2009 at 2:50 pm
I have always had medium blonde hair and I put in lighter highlights. And I have always gotten quite a lot of attention from RESPECTFUL guys. I think the clothes women wear an dhow they act are the deciding factor on whether they are easy or not. And I don’t think that blonde women remind guys of pron stars. There are ton of porn starts that have the olive skin and dark brown hair and they are gorgeous too. I think it comes down to your confidence and generally what a man prefers.
candice
On April 22, 2009 at 7:52 am
i think the problem here is what we keep on assuming.
Im have long natural blonde hair, fair skin, 5 ft 10 and 21 and without sounding over confident (as i am not) i am attractive and i get alot of men looking at me but rarely any will come and “chat me up”, i think they find me intimidating.
The point is i dont think it is guys causing this tension between blondes and brunettes – it is us women. Sure there are guys like mike who make hurtfull comments but the fact of the matter is that there is no difference in intelligence just different hair colour.
Being blonde is alot harder that people think, without even trying people assume we are being big headed and stupid when in fact we are just walking down the street like any other girl.
Blondes-porn stars? thats ridiculous.
I think brunettes need to stop giving us blondes such a hard time, because when it boils down to it it seems everyone both men and women try so hard to show us blondes that they dont like us on these polls, what about our confidence? Just leave us alone lol.
And if your man keeps cheating on you with your girlfriends, if not the haircolour that makes them do this – its just you have untrustworthy girlfriends!!
Try and boost your confidence levels hun xx
Zoee
On June 4, 2009 at 12:47 pm
Blondes are not dumb.
I was blonde when i was a baby and then i turned brunette [currently am]
There is a girl in my class, she is a blonde and very pretty, but also smart..
The boys that are absolutely nobheads go and chat her up,
but the kind, sweet, generous ones say they would never go out with her. I don’t know whether they actually mean it or not.
I was on MSN to my mate, and he said he preferred brunettes to blonde. So i guess its boys and their tastes really.
If you do have a boyfriend and leave you for one of your girlfriends, thats just uncalled for. There, they’re both being backstabbing.
Brunettes can be very pretty also, and most “blondes” are not natural.
Zoe/12/uk.
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