Boring Relationship: Spice It Up!

by PaNiCPeRCePTioN in Relationships, August 12, 2009

Have you ever felt like the spark in your relationship was dying, but you wanted to stay with the person you’re with? Are you feeling this now? Want to know how to fix it?

Hello, This is the second installment on my series of articles on love! This is a problem many couples face…how to get your love life back on its feet! I have personally experienced this many times. Until recently it usually meant the end for my relationship. So here’s how I fixed the my current relationship!

Become more active! If you’ve ever noticed, people tend to settle down as a relationship goes on. This makes it a little Boring. Try things like, playfully wrestling, star gazing, or just simply taking a nice walk or hike in the woods.
Make more plans! Plan on going places, just out of the blue. Ask your love if they want to go somewhere tonight.
Be more decisive! Noone likes to have to make ALL the choices. If you dont pitch in much and just “do what they want to do”, Suggest more things! They might want to do what you want to!
Don’t be afraid! To try new things! if it seems like you’ve done everything possible and still no good, try something crazy. Like, if you have the money, and a willing partner, a tandem skydive!
Just talk! If you really want to keep a relationship, I’ve found LISTENING to be effective. Talk with your love, even if its stuff you don’t want to talk about, just talk about it!

Thanks for reading! comment me about future suggestions. I really appreciate my message getting out! See you later!