Break Ups and Rebounds
by No one knows for sure when you get over an ex. You probably wake up one day and discover that you are no longer in love with that person.
Michael Bolton states that time, love and tenderness will eventually heal a broken heart. But what actually aids a broken heart.
When do you really get over heart break?
For how long will the pain last?
Does time love and tenderness heal a broken heart?
Does the hurt last forever?
My heart reeks with despair. My bones melt with longing and body shivers with remorse. My eyes blazed a mix of passion and anger. My face is cringed in pain.
How could he have been so heartless?
Why is he still happy?
Why am I the only one in pain?
There are no shorthanded answers to all questions. No one answer will sufficiently cover the plethora of emotional and relational along with psychological dynamic involve with rebounding from a break up or for some of us a break down.
There is one thing for sure the adage that the hurt won’t last forever is clearly underestimating the potency that a divorce from ones object of affection may have on a n individuals capacity to engage in alternative fulfilling relationships.
The put it clearly, some people never get over the pain. Some people never forgive the heartless delinquent. Some folks never move on and there are persons who get their hearts broken everyday because they are trapped by pain, acrimony, indignance and contempt: emotions that cripple their abilities to function effectively and to even discover love elsewhere.
Only time will remedy the pain that comes along with separation from a partner. No one knows for sure how the heart lets go. You will only wake up one day and the intensity of the emotions especially nostalgia has not overwhelmed you. You entertain no thoughts of your ex lover and the pain that you were feeling a week ago seems like a distant memory.
Your lost relationship, a dream. One that you become ever increasing glad that you have escaped. You’re ex lover a closing chapter in your biography. Today you are over him. Today you have found tender, love and happiness. Today is the day that you move on. Today is the day that lovelorn shackle will not entangle my feet.
Truth is there is no vaccine for unrequited love. My mother says that heart break is inevitable because not every man you meet will want to marry you. You win some, you lose some! It’s one of the harsh realities of dating that women face every day.
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