Communication

   Stop assuming someone is saying something between the lines; if you think they are ask them point blank and be specific with your question when confronting them. Many people mistakenly believe others are saying something totally different or off of the wall because they are assuming things between the lines that aren’t being said. Those people are literally putting words into people’s mouths that were never spoken. Also listen carefully when those people speak because that usually is what they do quite often; because they do it they assume everyone else does it too.

   There is a right approach and a wrong approach to dealing with people. If you come off sarcastic; a know it all; unbending, unyielding and as someone who is never wrong don’t be surprised if you have very little interaction with others. You don’t know everything and no one is always correct in everything in life or in this world. Even as I write these guidelines I realize there are variances in personalities. These variances are choices every individual must decide upon for themselves as to what they will and will not allow in their personal lives.

   That is the beauty of living in America and the FREEDOM of living in America. We have the right of choice and it is wrong for anyone to take that freedom away for any reason from anyone here in America. I can now love and communicate that love to all mankind and respect their choices without having to be a part of their choice only because I am secure in myself and my choices in life now.