Betrayed by a best friend, how to deal with betrayal.
True friends today are hard to find. The people whom we believe to be our friends in many cases are sometimes parasites. They pretend to be our friends yet we are being fooled. With the increasing number of people wanting to gain from others, it has become so hard to believe and trust even the one you call your best friend. People are always on the hunt for material things. Greed and selfishness have turned the society into a hunting ground of human wolves. They come in sheep clothes yet they are wolves.
In many cases, we end up having a relationship with people who are so hard to adjust with. We barely become compatible with our friends and we end up blindly trusting them. With all the cheap plots and gossip these days, friendship does not bloom. One way or another we will be surprised when our best friends betray us. With all the plots and betrayals it is hard for someone to accept what has happened to him or her especially when you become the victim of your own innocence.
This is happening!
However, dealing with such a catastrophe of being betrayed by your best friend can be difficult and you may seek answers where they are not found ending up devastating your own life. To deal with such a disaster there are three things one has to do.
The first one is to accept reality. It is hard, but the earlier ones accept, the better. Failure to do so may result in some actions that you may regret the rest of your life. You may end up ruining your success, yet the person who had betrayed you is already moving on with his/her life. Friends are everywhere, you can still find another one but in the process you have to learn a lesson.
Secondly, you have to take lessons from your previous encounter. Life is a journey where we continuously learn and it will be ignorant if one continues to repeat the same mistake over and over again. Learn fro your past and don’t take things at face value, else you will mourn for the rest of your life. There are many people out there who are good looking on the outside, yet they are vipers ready to strike. They are only waiting for the right moment to strike. So be careful all the time and never put all your eggs in one basket. You cannot change what people think but you can change what you think about people.
Thirdly, don’t force issues. Forcing issues is very dangerous. The moment you discover that you have been hit hard on the heart by your best friend, take a step away. Trying to force issues will be looking for trouble and tears. When it’s gone it’s gone, you will always find someone to lean on.