Desires Lists

  You will need to make lists as you see fit according to what you are seeking. You need to be specific on your lists in certain things that mean a great deal to you. I will give you examples in a little bit; first I want you to understand the importance of these lists.

  As is our habit, we attract that which we are accustomed to; which are usually the wrong types of people in our lives. To help us avoid those kinds of people we make a list for guide lines to follow. As we spend time with the people we meet; we check our lists to make sure of what we are looking for in friends. If you are looking for a special someone to have permanently in your life you will definitely want to be even more specific about some things then you would for a friend.

Example 1

Male Friend for a Female

1. Height, weight, hair color or length and facial hair do not matter.

1. Age between 40 to 60

1. Good moral standards (Won’t outright flirt with others in my presents)

1. Kind

1. Considerate of others feelings around him

1. Understanding of situations and circumstances

1. Likes hugs and kisses

1. Likes to play pool, go swimming, amusement parks, watch movies, plays; listen to music, dance, go out to dinners, and celebrate the Holidays with family and friends.

1. Has a vehicle of his own

1. Has a job to support himself

1. Lives alone, with children or with room-mates (NOT at his parents house with his parents)

1. Open and honest discussions

1. good communication skills

1. good reading skills

1. good writing skills

1. Good comprehension skills

Example 2

Female Friends for Females

1. Height, weight, hair color or length of hair do not matter

1. Age between 40 to 60

1. Good moral standards (won’t flirt or bed a man I or another friend is interested in.)

1. Kind

1. Considerate of others feelings around them

1. Understanding of situations and circumstances

1. Not afraid to give sisterly affection and advise

1. Likes to cook; entertain; create quilts, clothing, jewelry, etc.; play pool; swimming; amusement parks; watch movies; plays; listen to music; dance; go out to dinners and celebrate the Holidays with family and friends

1. Has a vehicle of her own

1. Has a job to support herself

1. Lives alone, with children or with room-mates (NOT with parents in their house)

1. Open and honest discussions

1. Good communication skills

1. Good reading skills

1. Good writing skills

1. Good comprehension skills

Example 3