Desires Lists

 

Things DON’T want in friends:

 

 

1. Rudeness including farts, body noises, loud belches, etc.

1. Excessive sarcastic attitudes

1. Childish displays of temper tantrums

1. Selfishness

1. Excessive aggressiveness

1. Excessive foul and or vulgar language

1. Drug users, sellers or makers

1. Alcoholics

  These are just examples of three of the lists you might make to keep in step with what you want for friends in your life as a woman. A man’s would be different of coarse and I have no idea what the Gay or Lesbian Communities might search for in friendships. If this is any help to them then by all means follow this also.

  It is not my intention to leave anyone out; I freely admit I am unknowledgeable in the matters of the Gay and Lesbian Communities. It is not my intention to offend but I don’t want to assume anything either. If I have offended anyone I do apologize.

  These next sets of examples are a little more in depth because it is what one might look for in a permanent partner, mate or a husband. The same principals apply to men searching for wives.

Example 4

 

Dates and Permanent Partners for Women

 

 

1. Height: 6’ or taller

1. Weight: 225LBS plus Buff (muscular)

1. Hair Color: Black

1. Hair Length: Shoulder or longer

1. Eye Color: Blue, Green or Steel Grey

1. Age: 45 to 55

1. Old Schooled Romantic (Doesn’t come to visit without flowers or candy.)

1. A gentleman in public with a slight wild streak (Steals kisses when no one is looking; whispers sweet things in my ear when no one else can hear and holds my hand as we walk.)

1. Has a job to support himself and take me out

1. Has his own vehicle to drive me to where ever we go on our dates

1. Has his own home or apartment and lives alone

1. Has good moral standards (Will not flirt with others while in my presents; will not have phone conversations during a date with me; will not conduct business while on a date with me.)

1. Kind and Considerate of everyone’s feelings around him but especially mine

1. Understanding of situations and circumstances

1. Likes hugs,  kisses and cuddling

1. Knows what he wants and is diligent, determined and persistent to get it.

1. While he prepares for the worse case scenarios he is optimistic about life, love and God’s love

1. Likes to have open and honest discuss and plan for a future and future possibilities

1. Likes horse back riding; picnics; strolls through gardens; theaters both movies and plays; Italian Restaurants; Mexican Restaurants; Chinese Restaurants; Out-door BBQ’s; slow dancing with me; Museums; Carnivals; Fairs; listens to music; music concerts; hot tubs; swimming; etc.

1. Good communication skills

1. Good reading skills

1. Good writing skills

1. good comprehension skills

Example 5

 

Things NOT wanted in a date or permanent partner

 

 

1. Picking me up empty handed

1. Going to fast food joints for cheep diners

1. Using business to cut cost on my date

1. Constant phone interruptions

1. Flirting with others while out with me

1. Putting hobbies before paying the rent/mortgage, utilities, phone, etc.

1. Rudeness

1. Snobbishness

1. Sarcastic attitudes

1. Childish behavior and or temper tantrums

1. Selfishness

1. Unreasonable Anger and aggressions

1. Loud and unruly behavior for attention

1. Excessive foul and or vulgar language

1. Drug users, sellers, or makers (Prescription drugs used properly is not abuse)

1. Alcoholics (A drink with dinner and one or two later is acceptable)

  I think you pretty well get the idea here as to how to create your lists for yourself. Adjust the lists to suite your desires, remember these lists are just guide lines to give you the idea.

  The more specific you are with your lists the better so your guideline will be more complete. Of coarse there are things many of you may not keep strictly to, such as the height, hair color and length and eye color if he has all other personality traits you want. Of coarse if looks are more important than personality traits to you and it is for many, you would make the necessary changes to reflect that too.