Developing and Sustaining a Relationship

Whether you want to developing a new loving relationship or want to sustain an already developed relationship, you are required to continuously keep on cultivating and nourishing the relationship with conscious efforts. A few noteworthy points to be kept in mind are pointed out below.

• Focus on the Partner : Both the partners must keep the other in focus while talking to each other or interacting in any other way. This will ensure that your partner keeps you in focus. Thus, both enjoy each others care and love.
• No Self-aggrandisement : Avoid telling your partner how great you are in conduct or performance but let him/her sense it from your grand conduct and performances with him/her and others. Conversely try to be sublime with the partner to make him/her sublime for you in return. This will ensure sweetness between the two.   
• Don’t tell your Problems : Some persons keep on telling their own problems to others to earn their sympathies and attention. This proves counter-productive in a relationship, as no one wants to be a partner of a problematic person. It does not mean hiding own problems from the partner but stating those clearly when the partner enquires about your well-being. If you ask and take interest in the problems of the partner, he/she will surely reciprocate the gesture in the same coin. Thus, both know each others problems and be cooperative with each other.
• Never Annoy and Get Annoyed : In a new relationship, as a little closeness keep on deepening to become an intense love between the partners, same is true for a small fissure in the relationship which keep on widening if not taken care of immediately. So never annoy your partner or get annoyed with him/her if you are serious about the relationship. Whenever some possibility of an annoyance arises, withdraw yourself from the unhappy situation and try to normalize the relationship without any delay. 
• Sorry, Thank you and Please : Say sorry as soon as you realize a gap between the two for some silly mistake of yours and really feel it to strengthen the bridge of understanding again. It is not a weakness, but a strength of the person showing how much he/she has interest in keeping the relationship. Get habitual of freely using the words thank you and please in the beginning of the  relationship to indicate how much cultured you are. 
• Acknowledge Partner’s Good Gestures : If you have failed somehow to show your interest in the partner and the relationship, and the partner has played that role better, show your gratitude to the partner and appreciate his/her good gesture in quite demonstrable terms. A good gesture remaining unacknowledged for long loses its spirit and never appears again leading to a break-up in the relationship.
• Touches – Real or Virtual : Touches play the most important role in developing and nurturing a relationship, it may be physical touches or even emotional touches when the two hears tend to resonate synchronised with each other.     

With all such minor steps and gestures, you demonstrate that you have a deep interest in the relationship and inspire the partner to follow suit, leading to a greater understanding and affinity between the two partners.