Divorced or Separated

     The issue of divorce or separation is eating into our moral life. A family that took a vow before everyone in the presence of God to live together for better for worse, in joy and anguish, in health and in ill health, in riches and in penury until death path them, is now separated even with little misunderstanding. This is not the interpretation of the vow taken in the presence of God.

    It is no longer news that most American women are single mothers, all because they want to live an uncontrolled live. A live where they will be the man of the house, one which nobody gives them order. Some of them deliberately get married and in marriage they set up their husband and divorce them, with the intent that the divorced husband will take care of their child. There is one truth about this issue of separation or divorce as the case may be. The kids a usually at the receiving end, how imagine a child that grew up outside the warmed hands of both parents, most times they end up in the street becoming gangsters and causing nuisance to the society. But if they grow up under their both parents, everyone will contribute their part to bring about a child that is psychologically and emotionally sound. This is because there are things the money can do in a home which the father cannot do and the same with the mother. But if everyone in love work together to compliment each other in the family, then will there be a happy home.

     Some people call it divorce and some call it separation all I know is that as long as both parents that took the vow in the presence of God are not together, then they are not keeping to their vow. Please I wish parent debunk the idea of separation as it is causing more psychological trauma to the child and the society at large.