Do Not Share Your Fantasies with Him That You Have About Other Men

Okay you love your hubby or your baby daddy or even your boyfriend. However, you fantasize about other men and want to know whether or not to share this with him. The answer is no for a good number of reasons. If you are fantasizing about other men you shouldn’t share the idea with him because;

1)      The truth should be told because you have an honest relationship, get real! Don’t tell it.

This is a load of you know what. There are honest relationships. However, what is the point in being honest about fantasies about other men? Honesty is the best policy doesn’t come into play with this situation. Honesty about your fantasies means they are not fantasies. No one wants to know everything about someone else. Besides, there are some things that are our own thoughts and feelings and are best kept that way. Being honest isn’t going to make your fantasy come true, make you are him feel better in the end.

2)      You aren’t going to act on it anyway

If you aren’t going to act on the fantasy why are you bothering with sharing it? Fantasies are not meant to be shared in this regard. Unless the fantasy involves both you and him, he doesn’t want to know about it.

3)      Do you want to know about his fantasies about other women?

Ask yourself if you want to know about his fantasies with other women. If the answer is no, then he doesn’t want to know either. Why would you want to know? You aren’t in the fantasy with him and other women. Don’t flatter yourself.

4)      You will have to share the gory details such as who are the other men. Are you prepared to give the details? If not, don’t share

If you think that after you share he won’t have questions he would like to ask, you are lying to yourself. He will want to know the who, what, why and when. It is certainly best to keep all things quiet and don’t share.

5)      Do these fantasies say something more about your overall relationship?

After you share the details or say it out loud you may begin to question the relationship overall. Does this say that you have other things missing or broke in the relationship? Fantasizing about other men while being with this man could mean more than you are willing to admit at this time.

If you are having fantasies about other men, don’t share it with him. He doesn’t really want to know and you don’t really want to tell him for a number of reasons.

Sharing your fantasies with him about other men will lead to tears, screams, pain, anguish and other emotions that you will have that aren’t even touching on what he will feel. Keep these quiet thoughts and dreams quiet for the time being and save your relationship.

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