Do You Believe Love at The Age of Fifteen is Real?

Do you believe a person can fall in true love at the early age of fifteen? As much as I hate to say this, yes, fifteen year olds do think they “fall in love” and it can be a strong feeling of “real” love causing their young hearts to almost explode with anxiety and desire. They are so much in love they become giddy and they will do almost anything for a chance to be close to or near the person they think they love. Young love can punch the breath out of a fifteen year old because it’s the first time they’ve ever felt such warm and affectionate feelings for a human being. This is a terrible obstacle for them because it’s their first encounter with “love” they have ever really had. They are too young to realize this is the first indicator they’re not mature enough to make their own decision about love much less marriage.

Did you know young love can be dangerous because it can make a fifteen year old to make poor choices in their life. The first thing they’ll start feeling is, “I cannot live without this man/woman, and if mother/dad does not allow me to marry them, I’ll run away.” Young marriage is not something we see much of in today’s society. Yes, years ago men/women married early in life, but today it is rare. The majority of young people do not marry until they have finished school and college.

Young love comes with many problems associate with it…they get married at a young age in life, and as they become more mature and into adulthood, they start to feel like they’ve been married all their life and all they want is an out. They want to explore and to date other people and not to be tied down any longer. In most cases, when couples are married at a very young age, they fall out of love with their mate and then they find themselves in a “real” dilemma because they have children and hate to leave them.

In many of these cases, the woman is left with several children to care for and she find out she can not handle the load and she drops them at her or his parents door for them to raise them and the children are left with grandparents whether they’re wanted or not. There’s a loss for those children that will remain for life and there’s hard feelings between parents and their own children because the children were dropped on them to raise.

Any young person who falls in love at fifteen, it’s hoped you’ll read this and decide to wait until you become and adult before you ever consider running away and getting married at a young age. If you believe you’re in love at the young age of fifteen, wait a couple years and see how you feel about the person then…I’ll bet it will not be “true love” anymore?