Do You Think Love is Unhealthy?

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*Are you getting addicted to love?:

Are you one of those people whose love has become unhealthy for one reason or another? Don’t worry there’s a way to get rid of that unhealthy relationship and you’ll find there is healing. Many people become obsessed with a person they’re having a secret affair with. They’re not aware they’re in for total despair in their life. It starts to play games of jealousy with your mind and you begin to question everything your lover is doing and where they are. You start to question their love for you and you want to be with them on a continual basis. There are people who feel they cannot live a second without the person they’re in love with and they start to manipulate and connive to find reasons to be with them on a constant basis. 

This can cause you lots of problems and you had better get control of yourself because you’re love is causing you to inherit lots of bad habits. It can cause you to not be able to think about a thing but the one you love and love is starting to control your thoughts and causing you to do many foolish things. You’re having problems with your appetite, sleep, and love is causing you to obsess about your lover.

*You’ll find you’re in a state of havoc?:

If you’re one of these people, you’re only existing because you cannot function on a proper level for thinking of your lover. When you think of them, you begin to get sweaty palms, become clammy all over, and you long to hold them close against you and to tell them how much they love them. You’ll find yourself wanting to be alone with your thoughts and you do not want to be bothered. This type of situation happens a lot in people who are having secret romantic encounters and they cannot see each other as often as they want to…it can cause such a craving within your mind it becomes in total shock to your system.

You might not be aware of it, but those who are around you realize there is a major problem going on with you. The secret affair is causing you psychological and physical problems too. Your mind stays in a spin and your body is beginning to burn out because of the lack of sleep and no appetite. You wish you could just get a seconds relief from this constant torture on your mind…you want to escape, and be free, if for only a few seconds.

*Summation:

There are studies that have found people who have low self-esteem and they’re having a romantic love affair are more apt to fall into this dilemma. The person who is having the affair is building his/her self-esteem and self-worth by having the affair. He/she has been suffering several insecurities in the work atmosphere and other activities. There are people who are in high power jobs who start to have secret romantic trysts and find themselves in this same sort of a situation. They start a secret tryst because they’re suffering low self-esteem, uncertainties, self-value and they need a boost to their ego.

A secret love affairs may go on for sometime but the person having the affair will begin to suffer from depression because they begin to feel they’re sacrificing many things in their life by having this secret relationship and they’ll begin to asks themselves, “Is this worth it?” In most cases, people walk away from the affair and never stray again.