Do You Want a Happy Marriage?

Do you want a happy marriage ?  

In Matthew 6:19-21

“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal.

“For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. “

The condition of your heart will determine the outcome of your life.  You have to commit to saving your marriage.what do you treasure?  Do you treasure your marriage? Jesus said “where your treasure is there your heart will be.”

you might be going through hard times right now with your wife or wife with your husband.  You feel like giving up and just going in your separate ways.  I want to challenge you to examine your heart before thrown it all away.  Can you answer this question.   What do you treasure in life?

What is the focus of your heart?

Attitude plays a major part in getting your husband or wife back.  To be a winner in a marriage you must have the attitude of altitude.  You want above all things to have a great marriage and be an example to your children and grandchildren.

Four things to get your heart in focus.

1. Make a decision to have a positive attitude.  It starts with you, change the attitude of your heart.
2. Make a decision not to run.  Divorce is not an option.
3. Realize you can’t do it alone.  You need Jesus Christ and His love to touch the direction of your heart. Ask Jesus Christ to take the pain and shame of your heart away.
4. Get back to the basics.  Refuse to be controlled by bitterness and anger.  Forgive and do not bring up the past . Forgive others as easy as Jesus forgave you.  

My friend fight for your marriage.  It starts with you.  You can’t save your marriage until you began to treasure your husband or wife more than anything in this world.  Jesus said “where your treasure is there your heart will be.” start by praying and telling Jesus how you feel.  He loves you.