Does Age Matter? (Age-Gap Relationships)
An essay about my perspective on if age matters in love.
“Does Age Matter?” I have chosen to answer this with the extra added of age and relationships. I considered two main aspects when answering this question; the physical and the mental. In other words, what a human perceives when they see two people dating and the age gap is large. Then the mentality of the two who are dating and if it is able to work out well. Note, what I am going to be stating will sound very harsh but it is all pure honesty.
First I will explain the physicality of an “age-gap” relationship and aspects to consider when deciding if it is right or wrong and if it truly is “right or wrong”. Then, just why people decide what they feel about these age gap relationships.. Secondly and Lastly, I will explain the mentality in these relationships considering maturity levels and overall if the two together are on the same “level”. I will not consider what people think about with the maturity levels… since honestly, people don’t.
When humans think of “physical” and “relationships” normally what comes to mind (unless by luck we have a pure soul reading this) is sexual intercourse. Now when thinking of sexual intercourse or sex and the “age-gap” relationship normally what also comes to mind is some forty to fifty year old man and someone of a much younger scale to the point that extreme shivering is a result. Please don’t deny this, No one automatically thinks of a fifteen and a twenty year old and that is a fact unless that is the main focus when speaking of said “age gap” relationship.
Obviously, from image one(the old man and much younger girl) it can immediately be noticed some anatomy that may cause the shiver in your bones. First off an older man even in his thirties and twenties can have problems in there anatomy that may cause complications like the fully matured genitalia to the not so fully matured genitalia. To put this as polite as possible, “Things may not fit.” This is the part that gets a normal human squirming in there seat in disgust thinking how “morally” wrong the idea is.
Another thing people think of when they hear “physical” and “relationship” is looks. Sorry for all of you who don’t want to admit this, but it’s true. The minute someone mentions dating in any sense the first thing either gender asks is, “Is he/she hot?” Sadly, this also has a role in the “age-gap” relationship. If a man or woman is on the level of acceptable or beyond looks, then they tend to get a slide from critic when it comes to dating younger people. Have a fit all you want, but when someone looks better then they should; that very image that damages the mind or pushes “age-gap” love to “immoral” is shut out and put in a completely different more, to be polite… pleasant spot.
Liked it

