Does Happily Ever After Really Happen?
by A question about love and happiness. Does it really exist?
Is there such a thing as true love? It brings up many questions about wanting to live happily ever after. Too, have met your true love, does it mean that you will live happily with that person? Makes you sit back and think!
True love, does it really exist? I know for certain that not everyone finds that kind of love.
Girls were read stories and falling in love and meeting their princes, living happily afterward, is it possible to live like that without you making it happen?
We all need to be happy. But, not everyone knows what love really is. Do you? Think about what would really make you happy. Then, write out a list. Cross off the things that are impossible to get. Pick ten of those and try for them.
I’ve accomplished half of mine. As time went on, I’ve added a few more to my list.
To be honest, I haven’t had my happily ever after as of yet. But, I’m happy with who I am. I’m working on my wishes and dreams. Plus, I found out that its hard on those that come into my life they don’t stay to long.
When you know what you want in your life. Too, live happily ever after in this life we live, I wonder if its really possible.
What would someone that has what ever they want in life, can they really be happy? Can you live a safe life? Being sure that know one will ever take advantage of you.
I don’t think that you need to be rich, to be happy. I know we need money to have a roof over our head, food to eat, clothes to keep you warm.
I would hope that we all know what will make us happy. Everyone has their own ideas of what can make them happy.
Some years back, I remember speaking to a 79 year old lady. She told me that she and her husband had been married for over 50 years. She said that there is always hard times as will as good times. Its what choices we make that can turn our lives better or worse.
Its our choice to create our own happily ever after in this life. Know matter what our choices are its up to us.
Know one can make us happy without us being happy with ourselves first. Someone famous once said, ” Get to know yourself and do it on purpose.” it’s a good statement that was made. How many of us can say we really know ourselves?
Because we are all different and have our own ideas of what makes us happy. That answer can only come from you. Finding that happily ever after is completely up to you.
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Post CommentAC Hamilton III
On March 8, 2009 at 10:18 am
A very honest and probing questions….for me….it’s as simple as being content with what you do have and always aspiring to make it better.
AC
payge
On March 8, 2009 at 10:25 am
I found my hapily after once and even fell in love once.But it doesnt count anymore and instead find myself content with the simple things now.Today,I am happy with life is now and have no regrets.Very nice article and it has several good points.
rutherfranc
On March 8, 2009 at 2:41 pm
good question, you answer it… just kidding, I agree with AC.. it is how you view it, if you are content you are happy.. but if you continue to ask for more then more again, you`ll never reach that point of everafter in this life..
Darla Smith
On March 8, 2009 at 3:11 pm
Great article and very interesting to read. Thanks for sharing.
Joie Schmidt
On March 8, 2009 at 5:40 pm
Yes, I completely agree – you have the CHOICE to make your life a fairytale……….. and you ARE just keep believing!!
Blessings.
Sincerely,
-Liane Schmidt.
Kim Buck
On March 8, 2009 at 6:27 pm
Yes, I believe it does happen. I just hope it happens soon.
Mulke Dee
On March 8, 2009 at 6:59 pm
I liked your article….needs a little work here and there but your message was very clear. I’d rather search for happiness instead of enjoying it and losing it….not knowing will always give me something to strive for…
Ruby Hawk
On March 10, 2009 at 7:36 pm
You are right, happiness means different things to different people. Anyone should be happy if they have a job, home, friends, and family. And they would be if they had know homelessness hunger,or family in peril. But we have so much we expect something more exceptional to be happy. We have too much to be happy with our good fortune.
kate smedley
On March 14, 2009 at 3:07 am
Very interesting article. For me as long as the people I truly love are safe and well I am happy.
Louie Jerome
On March 16, 2009 at 7:46 am
Oh yes! True love and lifelong happiness exist and if we ever stop believing it we may as well stop living!
Athlyn Green
On March 17, 2009 at 10:00 am
So much in life is about choices. that also includes what we choose to accept from a partner–whether that be ill treatment or good, whether we stay with someone or move on.
orlando javier
On March 18, 2009 at 10:31 am
very nice thoughts you have there. happiness may not be ever, but we can make it!
S A JOHNSON
On March 19, 2009 at 7:04 am
Great article. I’m one of those people who believe that you can only truly make yourself happy. (Even when it’s hard to do.)
Resounding Glass
On March 22, 2009 at 3:18 am
It could use some work on some of the spelling and grammar but I thought you brought up some good points and raised some interesting questions. Nicely done.
Fresh Writing
On March 22, 2009 at 9:25 pm
Hello Blomker,
Very provocative thoughts here…hopefully we will all find our happiness one day (whether that’s with someone or without).
Nicely done!
-Fresh Writing
malcy700
On March 23, 2009 at 11:51 am
Hello there. interesting questions you posed in your article. well written.
M J katz
On March 25, 2009 at 5:50 pm
Such a good and thought-provoking article. I agree with Ruby that happiness means different things to different people. And “happily ever after” doesn’t just ‘happen’…you’re always working at it…because even the most beautiful garden in the world will die if not weeded regularly!
clay hurtubise
On March 31, 2009 at 6:12 am
I think there are circumstances that make it very difficult for some people to be happy, no matter how hard they try. We get wrapped up in our little worlds and forget how other people survive. 3,000 kids die daily in Africa, how can those moms stay so positive?
Nice piece.
Thanks,
Clay
Teresa M Sims
On April 17, 2009 at 6:37 pm
true love exist if you allow it but can be confused with puppy love or just a person who was only suppose to be ur friend. read my poem called honest love
teresa sims
On April 17, 2009 at 6:38 pm
by the way i love it