Does the Past Matter When It Comes to Your Marriage?

There are so many marriages that are falling apart over infidelity, drug abuse, incompatibility. These are the things that break up happy home. But when do you hear about a marriage on the rocks about their past relationships. I believe that your” past is your past” and you are surpose to learn from it. But not everyone will agree with me on this. But when you get married you surpose to leave all of your bagged behind. That’s not the case in some people relationship. When couple get in to a relationship they aren’t worry about the other person past. They are trying to figure out their lives with each other. But how can you judge a person from their past? What is the purpose of being with them in the first place? They say love comes in diffierent ways for some people.

But what does love have to do with your past life experiences. I thought when love someone everything you have done before you mat that special one don’t even matters. Maybe it’s something about you sticks out and they just have to know. Once you start telling them about your past it cause a big disagreement and you are looking puzzle. And you are saying to yourself,” I shouldn’t have told you”. But it’s to later, because the one you love is steaming mad , they will never get over what you said. Now every argument, disagreement you  have with your partner about your past is throne in your face. You can’t do anything about it , because you shouldn’t said anything in the first place. There are forgiveness when it’s all said and done, but your partner will always have it in the back of their mind.

This is to the future relationship don’t say to much about you past. Because, it can cost you a life time of pain.