Don’t Believe Every Reason: Why a Man or Woman Cheats

Even when they have a good woman and she is a great lover in the bedroom, some tend to get possessive.  Yes, men say they want a freak and when they get what they want then most times they become insecure.  Sure they’ll say they won’t just so they don’t ruin their large egos, but they do get jealous.  Even when you know they are the only man for you and what you do to them you wouldn’t dream about doing to another, in the back of there mind they think differently.  They think someone may become aware of your freaky nature and they might try to sleep with you.  If you can please them in every way then when you are not around them, then they will be thinking about how you may be pleasing someone else just as good as you are servicing them. Same thing goes for a female whose man is giving it to her like she likes it. Some how she believes he’s out there servicing some other female too. If a man or woman decides to cheat or leave you, it doesn’t have to be just because a woman didn’t swallow or because the guy doesn’t eat her.  There is more to a relationship then sex.  If you let a man or woman make you believe other wise than I feel sorry for you. Just because a man tells you that he is cheating or is leaving his woman because she doesn’t move in bed doesn’t mean you should believe him.  Peel back the covers because he or she is hiding something.  It’s not always about the sex, it’s about finances, children, job,  lack of communication, problems with extended family, lack of support and etc…Those are some of the reasons people leave relationships. You can always teach your man or woman how to give you what you desire. If it is reasonable and they are not willing to try at least once then counseling is in order.  You must learn to compromise in a relationship.  Now, I must be honest in some rare occasions you may have about 30% of marriages/relationships that do break up due to sex, but it’s in combination with what I mentioned above. My suggestion is to get to know the person long enough to know what it is they desire and tell them what you need in order to get into a relationship in the first place.  This quick dating and getting married before you get to know a person is the main reason of breakups in my book.