Dummies Need No Drama
by Always pick your words carefully like you would your most trusted friends. At all times know exactly what you are saying, and what impact your words will have on your audience. Remember, people judge you by what you say. Say less.
You stare with fascination into her beautiful eyes, you must tell her something about yourself of course, you have to say something clever, and then you do it, the words flow out from your mouth with a speed of molasses: “I don’t need drama in my life.” You let the trite remark out firstly because you heard others, cool others, use it, it had an effect on you, and secondly it seemed you could protect yourself with the statement in case your beautiful date turned out to be a screaming, yelling psycho.
But consider for a second what do your chosen words reveal the audience about you? If you don’t know who you are talking to, if you don’t know exactly how they will react to your statement, the wise thing to do is not to say anything, till you gather more information, that is if you are interested in seeing the person again for whatever reason it may be. Be always respectful, clever, know how to please people around you, you will accomplish and enjoy a great deal more.
You are afraid of women, you can’t keep them under control, you are a looser, you don’t know what you are doing or saying. But the good thing is you don’t realize any of this. Life is good. Do you know what does “I need no drama” mean? You are saying “I am here to do you, then I will move on, I don’t really care about you, and your feelings, I have no time to make you like me.” What do girls think when guy tells them something like that? They think the guy is a dummy, and they will squeeze all the money they can out of him. There is no love or respect in this relationship that’s for sure.
Isn’t it better to have someone around you who loves and respects you? But then again, we all look for different things in life, and some people like to be taken advantage of, so who are we to judge them.
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