Ex Boyfriends?

i don’t know about you guys, but personally i don’t feel like I’m doing my job as a successful boyfriend when my girl continuously mentions all the times she did this with her ex. “All the guys I’ve ever dated have been hideous” what am i suppose to draw from that? especially being as i have a lower self esteem then most. Women, please don’t say things like this, if you state that all your previous boyfriends have been not so attractive, we are going to automatically think that we ourselves are on the rusty shelf in the tool shed. we love you for what you do, not how ugly your ex is. All men have a butch, hardcore mind set and think that we are the greatest thing on the earth. we know as well as you do that no matter how much muscle we have or how “clean” our ride is, there is always some one more ripped or with a nicer car.

  Every man wants his lover to love him unconditionally, and for the most part you do. Just the method in which you are loving us doesn’t have to make it seem like you still hoked on something else. We know you love us but when you continuously talk about your past relationships we get the vibe that there might still be something there, like we are just your recovery until you finally give in and go back to the man before us. We don’t know if that will happen but for us to truly give ourselves fully to you we have to know that you will stick through it with us all the way.