Exorcizing The Memories of Past Relationship

  Variety they say is the spice of life. Getting stuck to one particular thing over a period of time, can be a very frustrating experiencing that could ever happen to anybody. It’s more like a dead man working-you live a life you neither enjoy nor endure. Thus, the variety of life becomes more imperative, as it makes life worth living, while the life itself last. You eat as different food as you like, go to different places as you want and make as many friends as you wish. But curtailing as few sexual relationship as fate might decide.

  It is believed that too much of everything is not always good, as there is a consequence working hand in hand with the pleasures of life.

  Relationship has a terrific ways of building sweet memories in us. It gives us joy and happiness. It makes our spirit takes to flight, landing us in the climax of love. Our soul gets the solace she desire and our bones and marrow receives strength. It’s always an exciting moments that lives an indelible experience in our memories.

  But when the relationships begins to show a little sign of crack like an egg and eventually got broke, the effects and shock hits on us like a sledge hammer, piercing into our fragile heart-shattering it into pieces and living wounds that would never heal nor cover up. And so, still having the mindsets that variety should be the spice of life, we tend to move on and continue with another relationship. But like the terrible nightmares, the memories keep hunting us, even onto the present relationship.

  There is no doubt that those memories were good ones, pleasurable ones, exciting ones-memories that comes to our aid when our soul feel depressed and looks like the boredom of life wants to swallow us up. Then these memories lift our spirits and make us happy again. But when we want to consider the people involved and the terrible incidents that happen before we say good bye to each other, the whole thing gets more complicated-disgusting and causing resentment in our heart.

  This terrible experience tends to shape our ideas, our thought, the way we feel about other people and the new perspective we now hold towards life. So, we become wiser and conscious of our present relationship. We treat the people involved with suspicion. When there is a little sign of crack of a slight misunderstanding, we got flared up, shift blame and find fault from them. And when confronted, we quickly admit and say sorry almost immediately, because we want the relationship to last. But then, the past memories keeps dictating the pace and ways we should live our life-its like the water, that can’t be stopped from flowing.