Finding a Love of Your Life
It’s for everyone who still find a true love of they life.
Finding a soul mate is like playing chess. You could not too aggressive or too passive as well. You would never get the chance. You might be can find and get someone to be your lover, but would he be your love of your life? You would never know it, because, finding someone who could love and understand you totally, is not easy and simple as you think.
What should you do exactly to get someone as your soul mate? Check some points, below:
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Open your eyes widely
It was not only happens in business. But, in making relationship we also have to do it. Please, do not fall for someone easily, before you know him very well. Find and make relation with as many people as you could and try to find out all possibilities, for someone that you could trust.
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Building Networks
It was not like a MLM business network or else, but more likely a friendship network. Make friend with a lot of people. It might be your friends from office, a friend from your friends’ office, and so on. Tried to go and hang out with them. You would never know that you met someone from your past. It could be your best friend when you were little, your neighbour that you had never seen before during this time or else. You could never imagine who is going to be your soul mate for the rest of your life. It could be your closest person.
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Be flexible and open minded
Tried to be flexible and open minded person. You could talk with anyone that you would felt comfortable. But be careful, don’t be a “Ms. Know Everything”, because man didn’t like to see too smart women, even not all men did.
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Find out your soul mate candidate
If you had already found out your candidates, try to select them one by one. You had to know which man were really like you and would know about you more.
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Get the feeling
If you had decided which man you choose and you would know him more, then get start to get the feeling with him. If you felt secure and comfortable with him or if you could tell him anything about what you felt about something, then it might be a sign that he was the one. And make sure that he would felt the same about you.
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Make relationship but don’t give your love 100%
If both of you would feel the same, start your relationship. But, please remember to keep open your eyes and networking, because there was still no guarantee that this time relationship would be everlasting. “Don’t judge the book by its cover”, you had to find out more. A real man is more than a skin deep. He might be look charmed when he near you, but turned to be an evil behind you. So, when you would find out what kind of man he was, you would not be broken heart easily.
In GOD we trust
But, when you would meet your soul mate, then there will be something that would show you that he was the one. Let God guides you. Sometimes, you just have to believe that someone was waiting for you out there. When the time had come, God would show you how.
Just like I did. When I met my husband, we connected each other directly, even I had already a lover back then, but somehow, my husband made me different and I just fell in love with him.
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