Five Bitter Truths I Learned From My Boyfriend About Relationships
by Read the article to know what they are. Apparently, they might change your viewpoint about relationships!
My boyfriend is a great person. He is my role model. But above all this, I have learned some bitter truths from him about the traditional relationships we see in every society. A point to be noted is that he means to offend no one, but at the same time what he says is somewhat valid.
1. “If a girl does not like the guy in the beginning, but ends up falling for him after he chases her hard then it means she is not in love with him, but has warmed up to his ugly face.”
According to my boyfriend, if a woman who hates dogs is forced to keep her neighbor’s Pomeranian for a week or two in her house she might just start becoming sympathetic towards it after a while.
This is what happens between a girl and her chaser man. If a girl does not initially like a man then it is because she is not attracted to his face at all. However, the chasing can just make her warm up to him. It is not really true love, but a the habit of seeing him again and again.
2. “When a girl decides to give a man sex in exchange of gifts and dinners she turns herself into a prostitute.”
He told me this when we were discussing women who never make financial contributions during dates. Their notion is that the men must pay for everything. But then what job they pick for themselves? The sex? Actually, this is the only thing that remains after the men pick them up, pay their bills and then again drop them off at night.
3. “Women settle down with nice guys only when they realize that their biological clocks are running out.”
We always hear that women like the bad guys. Yes, it is true, but only for those who are still in their early and mid 20s. This is the time when they want to have what they cannot get.
But once they start hitting 29 they come down to earth to realize that after they go in their 30s they might go through complication while giving birth. So a wedding in a hurry with a nice guy becomes their mission. He actually has the potential to become a great baby sitter to her child!
4. “When a guy tells a girl that he wants her to be his friends with benefits he is indirectly stating to her that she does not have qualities to become his girlfriend.”
My boyfriend says that friends with benefits is an indirect rejection. When a guy wants a woman he verbally expresses it in a respectful way. However, his invitation for her to become his friends with benefits only proves that he just wants sex from her and nothing else.
5. “Arranged love and relationships aren’t fun.”
Accidental meetings, love at first sight, talking to a crush, getting butterflies in the stomach and having sleepless nights are some of the signs of the initial stage of a beautiful love story. How two lovers met is even the central theme of many romantic movies. Now dating someone just to see if there is connection with him or her equals to artificially creating love and relationships. Truly, there is no fun in it.
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Post Commentanaitreads
On January 12, 2011 at 12:42 am
What does it mean if the girl & guy both don’t like each other in the beginning? They go out once & decide not to pursue things. A few months later & they get together. True love or not?
abbeygirl
On January 12, 2011 at 6:11 pm
He was talking about the face. It is the only thing we see in the beginning. If we dont feel attracted to it then we might not feel very much inclined to date the person in the first place. But if this person stays persistent in his chase we might get used to his face and at one point feel bad when he is not around. So giving into him equals to working on sympathy and habit, and not true love.