Five Crucial Tips Every Guy Needs to Know to Get His Dream Girl
by Now guys, I’ve recognized that you need a little help when it comes to the dating scene. Here are some tips, written by a girl herself, so that you can perfect your game and snag your dream girl!
Be yourself. No, seriously: Be yourself!
This might sound like the most cliché, overused piece of dating advice ever, but it still rings true. If you’re in the market for a long-term, serious relationship, don’t try to build yourself up and stretch the truth. If you boast about being able to bench 300 pounds or holding the top executive position at the company you work for, you may have us awed and enthralled at first, but as the relationship progresses, the truth will come out, and our trust in you will plummet. You don’t have to make us think that you’re perfect. We know you have flaws. If you can laugh them off a little and be open and honest with us, that’s how you earn our true respect and admiration.
Don’t be an Average Joe.
If you really want to wow the lucky lady, instead of building yourself up with delusions of grandeur, try to make an honest effort to go above and beyond. Instead of showing up with an everyday bunch of flowers, try finding a box of exotic chocolates or something special like that. And not every date needs to be at a sit-down restaurant. A picnic on a nice summer day is always romantic, and thinking more outside the box, you could take her to an art class or a ballroom dancing lesson or something creative. Try to think outside the box. If you come up with something really creative, it will make you stick in her mind and create a pleasant memory for her. She’ll want to see you again!
Leave her wanting more.
On your first couple of dates, don’t spend more than an hour or two with her. If you’ve had a wonderfully perfect date, don’t hang around for drinks. Leave her wanting more! That way, she’ll be intrigued by you and eager to see you again.
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Post CommentFive Nosed Jack
On June 8, 2008 at 11:07 am
This is the most pathetic load of drivel that I have had the misfortune to read for a very, very, very long time!
Autumnrose
On June 8, 2008 at 10:41 pm
Thank you for your opinion, Jack, and also, thank you for the laugh, and thank you for providing to the males of the world an example of what not to be.
PS: I also giggled when I tried to search for your Triond profile. Isn’t it funny when people too insecure to place their own writing in the public arena try to validate themselves by throwing stones at other people? Grow some testicular fortitude, put yourself on the proverbial Triond chopping block, and then I might be inclined to take you seriously.
Ima Write
On June 12, 2008 at 12:02 pm
Nice article. I agree 100% with be yourself, and I think showing that you have confidence (without being arrogant) is very important to! But above all, I think what matters most is showing the girl that your interested in her by doing nice things (it’s the simple things that count!). Showing a girl that you’re interested her is far better than just coming out and saying it. lol, that is all.
Thanks for the read!
Andromeda
On June 15, 2008 at 1:51 am
You are so right. This needed to be said. Thank you for a great read!
Redburn
On July 17, 2008 at 2:25 pm
More deadly useful tips. Thank you so so much girl!