Five Men Women Should Not Expect to Commit

We have all seen them and have even swooned over them.  No girls I am not talking about bad boys or Players or womanizers.  I am talking about the men that are just not commitment material.  The ones that is so into other people around them instead of you.  The “I don’t want grow up” Toys R Us men, the one that will take you to McDonald’s, give you a paper Mache rose and call it a romantic date over $1 burgers.  The guy that is more into waxing his car than waxing your ASSets or the guy who is always telling his mama everything or telling you everything his mama says.  These men are not bad people they just do not have the mindset to commit to that special someone.

1. Man child- Are the “I don’t want to grow up” Toys R Us men.  These men still cling to high school or his glory days, the days when things was less complicated and less responsibility.  He is addicted to Madden or Nintendo Wii, always club hopping and ride around with his music blasting (yes you can hear him coming down the street) as if he is still 20 years old.  These men are fun for a couple of dates, but he is not going anywhere and will avoid responsibility. 
2. Roaming eye- This guy will look at every woman in the building, walking down the street, at bus stop, waitress, best friend wife everyone except the one he is with.  Most women will call this type of man a dog but ladies, he is not running after those other women.  Just staring hard enough as if he is undressing her with his eyes.  We are all human and every now and then you are going to catch your man looking at other women but there is a fine line between admiring and disrespectful rubbernecking.  Men, we don’t want to constantly compete for your attention, so we leave.  Even the women without the slightest hint of insecurities would want her man to treat her like the only woman in the room.
3.  Penny pincher’s- These men will squeeze a booger out of Lincoln nose pinching that penny so tight.  You are not being a gold digger if you are asking to get your meal super-size.  I am all for savings but there is just a fine line between saving and being a cheapskate.  When you would rather walk 17 blocks instead of paying the $5 fee to park in the garage, then you are a cheapskate.   There is no way I am about to walk 17 blocks with stilettos, carrying Gucci handbag and wearing my brand new Baby Phat dress.  Drop me off in front of the building so I can meet another man willing to spend a little more on a date.  “I am not saying she a gold digger”
4.  Materialistic- This guy would rather put ten coats of wax on his car, if his car was alive he would marry that car.  You know this one ladies,  He is more into his cars, motorcycles, boats or any piece of technology that makes him look rich.  This guy is into his material possess more than his own woman.  He pays more attention to that Harley, drop top 1958 impala, Maxum 2000SC speed boat or his Blackberry phone.  These would rather spend their money on buying parts, rams, latest applications and other products related to their gadget of chose.
5.  Mama’s Boy- He probably live at home with his parents or mama, living at home is not necessary a bad thing(some cultures its very common for children to stay with parents forever). But when a man wants to be waited on hands and foot by his mama, then Houston we have a problem.  Ladies we seen them before: he lets his mom do his laundry, make his bed and cook his meals.  Mama’s boy would expect their girlfriend to give them the same treatment as his mom gives him.  Mama’s boys are looking for mama figures not girlfriends.

As I said before these men are not all bad, they just need to do some growing up and possible need someone to show them the way.  Just because they love their mom, rather play Madden all night or love that boat more.  Ladies if you are looking for a serious relationship then avoid these men because they are not ready for a serious relationship.  Not everyone going to come into your life ready-made, but there is a different between digging for diamonds and digging for rime stones.