Comments on: Five Signs That Tell Your Relationship is Over

By: BamBamNaples

BamBamNaples — Sat, 28 Jan 2012 05:46:23 +0000

Wow… Such profound yet

By: KoreanB

KoreanB — Mon, 19 Dec 2011 22:02:16 +0000

well.. I look at her.. and I feel the love, but I feel the pain too. I do not know what to do.

By: julia

julia — Tue, 29 Nov 2011 14:37:26 +0000

Stu all I can say that love is not the only thing needed in a relationship. what else is there to be with someone. what is stopping you is when you say I don’t want to hurt her. I am in a similar boat. I am still head over heels from my bf and I live with him, but his actions (which have been being too comfortable, lazy and selfish tell me that’s it’s over. But then he tels me he loves me and is in love with me. Yet neglects the little things that I would love for him to do. It is really hard. her moving in I don;t think would make the difference. You can’t be the only one though in the relationship trying and making the effort. which is exactly what I am begining to see. Good luck. Even if there is love, there needs to be somthing else to make it work, becuase love is not enough. Trust, respect, honesty, there needs to be something else, but love. good luck I know being in a relationship is so tough and hurts so badly especially when you feel like your doing all the effort and the other person just doesn;’t.

By: BC Doan

BC Doan — Fri, 06 May 2011 14:54:05 +0000

Dear Naomi–Love is a complicate web, isn’t it? I don’t know if I can ever love a person that gives me that dreaded feelings.

Dear Cleopatra–That’s a tough situation to be in, but at least now his brother is gone and you two can try to mend or re-connect with each other.

Thank you all for your comments!!!!!!

By: Cleopatra

Cleopatra — Tue, 03 May 2011 21:50:15 +0000

I feel like this is me right now. I have a broken heart because I finally realized my husband doesnt care about me or our children. We’ve been together for almost 6 yrs now and he started getting offensive when I was expecting my 1st child. He started the name calling and then he would just take every word I’d say as an offense. I cannot communicate with him because there is no time.(according to him) We live under his roof and since he provides everything that comes into our home I have no right to say what will or will not be done at our home(this is what he says). His 27 yr old brother was living with us for three years and just this Sunday he decided to move out. My husband acted towards me as if I would have kicked his brother out. I didnt (although he really annoys me) It seems as if my husband really appreciates his brother more than the children( we have 2 boys by the way a 4 yr old and a 3 yr old) and me. Why do I say this? Like I said my husband has no time to talk to me but would come straight into the house after work and into his brothers room. He cant have a conversation with me but with his brother he can? I dont know if Im over reacting but would like a little advice as well.

By: Naomi

Naomi — Sat, 30 Apr 2011 16:29:25 +0000

wow, just saw this and each and every story struck a nerve. I am in the same boat as many of you and still feel like there may be a chance. I love him and cater to him and he likes me staying home to be with my son (who is not his) and my son calls him dad. Sometimes I feel like I stay because Im afraid of being alone, and I want my son to have a good roll model in his life. My man is not abusive, great provider but not fun. Hardly ever smiles, constantly negative and I am the exact opposite, I am happy, loving, affectionate and take care of the kids, and our home. But I do get that dreaded feeling when I see his car and hear his voice. And I do have more fun without him. I guess I just answered my question but I do love him beyond words

By: single lady

single lady — Wed, 02 Jun 2010 08:12:40 +0000

hi ihave enjoyed sharing relation ship experiences with fellow Triond readers. mine isnt working either, hope to get advice from you guys.

By: BC Doan

BC Doan — Fri, 16 Apr 2010 13:09:59 +0000

sas2928,

It seems to me you’ve already made the decision, and I also think that you’ll find the answer soon.

By: sas2928

sas2928 — Wed, 07 Apr 2010 06:57:00 +0000

I have been with my boyfriend for over three years now. I have for the last few months not be inlove with him i love him as a friend by not sexually attracted to him. Am i doing the right thing by ending the relationship??? can someone please help

By: BC Doan

BC Doan — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 14:41:54 +0000

Jimmy,

Only you have the answer to that! You said you still love her, so can you forgive her and trust her? Everyone deserves a second chance, but only you can make that decision. Best of luck to you!