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You have been wondering why your love seems to have faded away in the last few months. When you both started out, you felt there cannot be anyone more romantic than your beloved. Moreover, yes, you did spend one of the most memorable moments with your lover…those moments that have brought you to this place to keep them alive! You are in luck because you would be able to rekindle those moments with five simple steps – not because they are simple, because you want to!

• Tell her she is beautiful – Remember how every time you looked at her, you would miss a beat? Well, deep inside you still do, then why don’t you tell her? If you remember the smile on her face when she heard this back then, then you would not mind telling her this again! You make her feel beautiful and trust me, you telling her she is attractive means much more than anyone else saying her the same words. Try it once and you will not regret it! For all the women out there, try telling your beau that you trust him and mean it. That is what men want from their partners – believe in them. Do not keep telling your men how bad they are at driving all the time! When you are sitting next to them, they are always much more careful…
• Give space to each other – It is very important that each of you in the relationship get to do what you like. You are only building resentment if you keep stopping the other person doing what he/she likes. Give space and see the difference. Couples are like rubber bands. They go far to get that energy back in their love so that they can spring back with much more vigor and excitement. The best way to show your partner you care for their space is by gifting them one of those rare treats of their favorite pastime.
• Make yourself unpredictable – Yes, you read it right! Remember how you were all so interested in the way she would tell you about her mother’s cousin’s brother’s best friend and you would still listen to it with all your attention? You did it because you wanted to know her more. Now, you do not because you already know her. It is time to turn the clocks back! Make yourself unpredictable! For a change do something you usually wont do with your love – go for an adventure, tell her a story, give him a massage, cook her favorite dish! Anything that would make your partner curious! You would observe that curiosity would get your love closer to you…how closer depends on you!
• Now make yourself available – There are times when we are so engrossed with our work lives that we tend to neglect the ones who love us. Why not take a day off and do nothing but spend some time with your partner? Make your partner feel that he/she is important too…stay at home and watch a movie, munching popcorn! Or take her to that shopping spree that she always craved for…It might turn out to be heavy on your pocket but trust me, it is going to take the burden off your heart!
• Be passionate– Do you ever remember how the foreplays used to be so much longer than they are now? What made it change? Lovemaking forms a very important part of relationships and missing action in the bedroom does bring down the excitement in the relationship. Prolong your foreplays, make it soft and tender, until your partner has enjoyed to its core. Moreover, do not forget to make some new moves – they always come handy!