Five Things You Must Eliminate in a Relationship

 Pretence/Dishonesty:

Most daters, ladies and man alike are in the ugly habit of pretending to be what they are not. This is very destructive to any relationship. If you build a relationship on such a false foundation, the end of it can better be imagined.

Claiming to be what you are not, or hiding your true colour in order to keep your date, is the worst mistake you can ever make in a relationship. If you succeed at all, and he or she decides to marry you, what happen when your true identity is revealed? Are you still going to be happy married? Of course not.

I believe on of the aims of dating is to allow for free interaction, for you to express yourself, so as to know the likes and dislikes of your partner. This would help in building a strong and happy marriage. Someone said to me that, it is possible to date a person for a long 5years without knowing the true character of the person. This is very serious.

If your want happiness in your marriage, please be open and honest with your date. Be your natural self. Don’t pretend. It is better if he or she finds out what you are not good at, at this early stage. Don’t ever be afraid that your might lose him or her should he notice something you consider unpleasant about you. If he or she decides to walk out of the relationship because he has known the real you, and cannot tolerate you the way you are, fine; pleas don’t worry about it let him go, probably he is not the one for you. As long as it not something you can change, there is nothing you can do about it. I can assure you, the one for you easily toerate you just the way you are. So common, open up let him or her know your weakness, it doesn’t matter. Infect, this one way you can test real love. If this man or woman loves you in spite of your weakness, then that love is real.

Desperation

Someone says, “desperation produces perspiration and perspiration stinks on anybody.” Don’t be desperate or in a hurry about getting a date or someone to marry. You won’t get any reasonable partner when you are desperate. As a matter of fact, you will end up getting someone desperate, and f it works for both of you at all, that you get married, you will soon discover that you have made a serious mistake. Why? Because you can hardly get anything right when you are desperate. So no matter the pressure, don’t get desperate because it will always lead to regrets.