Five Tips for Your First Date

So, it is your first date with that cute girl and you have no idea how to impress her. You are wondering if she would agree to a second date? Well, let us get the first date perfect and then worry about the second one! Read below to find out the five things girls (or for that matter women) observe on their first date!

Are you punctual?

Do not even think of reaching late on your date! The last thing any girl would want is to be stood up on their very first date! One of the best ways to impress the first time is to reach the spot before she does and wait for her. The reason behind this is a delicate psychology of a woman’s need to be desired. Your waiting for her will only make her feel needed and desired. This, for starters, will make her day!

Venue – somewhere she likes, not you!

Your first date, or any ideal date, should be a place where you are sure your partner would enjoy – reason: she needs your undivided attention. Do not take her to a cricket match just because you enjoy watching it! You would end up watching the match much more than the pretty woman beside you! Take her to any place where she is comfortable and carefree! This would only reinforce the fact that you care and she would not miss this point for the whole world!

No expensive gifts!

First dates are meant to be knowledge sharing session. You get to know each other better on the first day. Giving an expensive gift will make it harder for any progress. It is like the Robbie William’s song “something stupid”. You are going to spoil all the love by saying “I love you”! Say the right words at the right time. Similarly, give the right gift at the right time. First date is definitely not the time to gift anything expensive. In fact, it would be ideal if you could give something sentimental like a rose (not a bouquet of roses!). She would definitely preserve it for a long time!

Be a good listener

Remember how your teacher would always tell you to be a good listener when others speak? Well, this is how school helps all of you! Being good listener on your first date is a sure shot path to your girl’s heart. Why? Simple – girls love talking and what better than someone who not only listens to what they say but also agrees to them?! Jokes apart, listening to your partner is an excellent way to open them up and feel comfortable. Women often have the need to be heard. Their emotions are always suppressed because the others doing the talking all the time. The real “she” remains buried deep down inside. When she observes that she can open up to you, she gets closer to you. Try it and you can see the difference. Hope you listened to your teacher when she was telling you listening secrets!

Be honest!

Last but not the least – be honest! Ninety nine percent of women disapprove of lies, or dishonesty and would prefer being told that they are not appropriately dressed, than a blatant “wow! You are gorgeous!” look. Trust me; they know when they look good and when they do not! Listening from you only makes it more exciting. So, be honest and do not shower them with unnecessary praise. It would only put your partner off and would rethink before committing to a second date. Remember, with every word you speak, she is evaluating you. So, let the real, rather than your glib responses, be known to her. She would appreciate your honesty much more than a lie caught on the second date!