Five Ways to Destroy The Relationship

There are common mistakes that partners have lived together for some time, begin to admit to each other. Some of these mistakes can jeopardize even a very strong unions.
Jealousy Without Borders

Written and said about the harmful effects of jealousy in the relationship many articles, books, scientific treatises. In moderate doses, as a light flirtation, this feeling useful and gives a certain piquancy relations and coloring. “Jealous – it means, loves. However, all is well within reasonable limits. Sometimes we cross the border, jealousy, which falls within a reasonable flirting turns into a painful and destructive feeling. Jealousy destroys everything. family, love, health. Impact on relations in children. Sooner or later the man, which is under pressure from jealousy on the part of its women, can not stand and make a real affair. Applying the banal: “That was not hurt.”

Sex as a weapon

He bought a diamond necklace – and so for the week your head ache stops. He has not made a rubbish and made a compliment to your friend – do you spend in bed, an invisible line and turn back to him. This – a wholly owned manipulation. And any manipulation is nothing like being forced to commit actions. That is, simply, violence. Sooner or later, tired of such relationships in the family, a man finds a more amenable partner without any health problems and desire. Contrary to popular belief that sex is problematic to build a platform of how a strong relationship, in this case it might be a good springboard. Will a man with a mistress or not – is irrelevant. It is important that the family he will leave.
Constant criticism

In reasonable criticism of any actions of your men is for him a powerful incentive to improve themselves. But critics – so delicate matter that is important to gather all the age-old feminine wisdom and do not overdo it. He did not put there socks, he does not put them anywhere at all, he was not paying attention, he is too closely following your life, he works hard, he does not work hard, it does not work at all, he did not earn, earn little, but your dad / ex-husband … Confronted every day with the censure and condemnation of what he does, man, sooner or later to wonder whether he is worthy, so bad, you so good? Or even about something thoughtful. The result of his thinking may well be bold cross on your relationship.
All too

Chatter, running, attention, emotions. The total invasion of the life partner often gives a little bit wrong effect, which offers girls, controlling every step of his men and suffocating him with her constant care, attention, conversation. They think of such “warmth and affection,” a man will not give for anything, but their continued presence next to – nothing more, as the realization of sayings about the flower that smells sweeter than all in close proximity to her nose. Deprived of personal space man in a moment ceases to understand where it ends, you and starts his own “I”. A man with a lost “I” integrated personality can not be. and the first natural human reaction in such a situation – some to expand the boundaries of their personal space. For example, you get out.
Against the will of

If he does not want to go with you shopping, it makes sense to leave him alone and one to make the Sunday shopping. Maybe he just did not have time to miss your cousin, and a day off with great pleasure that would be devoted to domestic affairs / watching football / you and only you / children and so on. But you certainly need to have it where you want to see him and did what you say. In order to achieve this effect, women resorted to various kinds of manipulation – from primitive compulsion to speculation on his feelings. Tears of hurt. About manipulations, which are there is violence, already mentioned above. The situation is complicated by the fact that, being arranged to suit your tastes and desires that are contrary to his own, a man loses personal space. On the higher as already mentioned. Sooner or later it will start to rebel. During that would result – easy to calculate.