Five Ways to Leave Your Lover

 There are many situations when everyone, even the people who feel they have lost that sudden spark of interest for dating in general, may find that they’re bored or want something new. There could be other situations where someone may feel that they’re relationship is on the edge of turning into a hellbound mess in the longrun. Whether you want to be short and to the point, honest, or want to leave without that damned feeling of regret a few weeks later after the action is taken, then you must go over the many options people insist on avoiding, and would rather act on impulse. There isn’t necessarily a wrong way, because based on the famous song, ”50 Way to Leave your Lover” by the oldies idol known as Paul Simon, whichever way you do it, there is only one motive: to get out. Whether you want to remain friends or feel remorse for your soon-to-be former lover, your one goal in the back of your head is to get out of that relationship, you just need to find a way to do it on your own terms.

Here are some of the options you could consider before acting on impulse:

1. Walk out leaving nothing but a memory.

Regardless of the situation you may come face-to-face with, if your partner has wronged you in ways such as being unfaithful or abuse, whether it be verbal or physical, this is the best action to go with to leave hard feelings out the window until karma catches up later. This is the best way to act, because when you feel wronged, you feel the need to seek closure in a way that links to revenge regardless of how extreme. You feel a slight amount of hatred for the situation, maybe not your lover, but the situation itself. You may act as you need to later, but this is the best way to get out of there immediately without feeling the need to make decisions in a way you will regret and maybe hurt yourself in a sense later.