Five Ways to Please a Women

Are you a guy that is looking for hints and ideas on how to bring pleasure and passion back into your relationship? Or do you seem to  be “doing something wrong” when it comes time to have pleasing your lover?Don’t worry, here are some great tips to put the pleasure and passion back in your life. It is possible that you may learn some new things as well; so get a pen and paper and take notes:

If your wife or girlfriend has had a long hard day at work or with the kids and she just does not feel attractive or sexy in any way, instead of walking away, show her that she is still sexy to you. Men, when I say show her, I do not just mean tell her that she is “pretty.” I mean have her sit down; after she is comfortable, pamper her . If she likes massages for instance, give her a back or foot massage or both. By doing this little gesture you are not only making her body feel good but you are also making her feel sexy. A lot of the time when you do this for her, she will be ready to do anything with you.

Men, if your girlfriend or wife is pregnant or has just had a child; let me tell you from experience that after having a child women do not feel confident about their appearance. This is the time when you reassure her that she is still beautiful to you. Point out your favorite things about her. Remember she has just had a child so go with the flow of things, do not rush into sex. Take it slow letting her feel desirable. Rushing into it will make her think two things:

1. You just want use her body to get off.

2. You don’t really want to be with her.

It is nothing against men or anything but it is called post postpartum depression; every women who has just been through a pregnancy goes through it. So when you are thinking of having sex with her make it memorable and let how she feels set the pace. Put passion into it so she will enjoy every second of every night or time with you.

If you are looking for another suggestion to make your time with her special but you are looking to do something before sex. You could draw her a bath and place some candles around the bathroom; while she is in the bath, offer to wash her back or hair. When you do this it is a definite way to set the mood. A romantic bath is a huge turn on for a lot of women.

But there is something else that women love and that is when you take her somewhere romantic whether it is to a nice place for dinner or to a Bed and Breakfast for the night. A lot of women like the element of surprise or like to mix things up.

And finally when you are in bed with her instead of taking the lead, ask her if she would like to take the lead. When you ask her if she wants to control the night, it spices things up and you might be surprised at the things she may do. Who knows, you may find out that she has always had a fantasy about having her way with you or has wanted to suggest a role play night. Every woman has a fantasy and by doing those things she has only imagined before, you are letting her experience them, with you.

Trust me men, by your giving her control of your love play she is guaranteed to remember the night for a long time; and so will you. If you follow these 5 pleasure tips and ideas, I am sure that you will find that it will help your love life immensely .