Four Easy Ways to Fix a Relationship: For Men
Guys swear that their relationship is struggling, but they can never guess why. These four things will probably give you a little heads up, and fix a lot of what needs to be fixed.
Are you listening?
Girls want you to listen. After all wouldn’t you be upset if you felt your girlfriend/wife/etc. wasn’t even paying attention to a word you were saying. Us girls like to realize that you pay attention to us, whether we are rambling or saying something important.
Jealous much..?
When girls come up to you and talk to you, we overreact, but don’t count on us admitting it. We won’t you to be the same way. When guys come up to us and talk to us, we want to feel like you are protective of us, but not phys-co. Don’t cause a scene. “I’m gonna beat the crap outta you.”S’s are definitely not welcome.
Don’t make us feel dumb.
When we are talking, don’t make us feel like we don’t know what were talking about. Interrupting us, really gets us frustrated and usually tends to make us want to argue it out. Anytime we do mess up, don’t say smart comments like, “nice job”, “talk much?” That just makes us want to stop talking in general.
Love us. The most little things mean the most.
Things that you wouldn’t even begin to guess, mean so much to us. Putting your arms around us, kissing us gently on the cheek, and especially the little, “sneak up behind us, wrap your arms around our waist” “s are much appreciated. You don”t have to make us feel “top dog”. Just let us know that we are loved. Telling us is great to, but when we are having a bad day, or we just want that little extra spark, sometimes you just need to show us.
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