Four Steps to Putting Your Wife Back as The Priority in Your Relationship

1. Start by sitting down and talking with your wife about what her needs are, taking an interest in what she wants. Make sure you listen with an attentiveness and put your concern for her ultimate happiness and well-being above all other things. Make sure you let her express how she feels and give her all the opportunities she needs to talk and vent how she feels about the situation. Make sure you have no interference from outside irritations and that your schedule is clear so you can give her your undivided attention.

2. Release some of the things that are getting in the way of the relationship, so you can put your wife above everything else in your life. This may mean putting aside things life TV, going out with the guys, and Sports. It’s important to make her feel as valued as possible, so as to strengthen your relationship with her again.

3. She may ask certain things of you that you haven’t been doing, that she would like you to be doing more of. Listen to what she has to say and talk about how you can change what you do to fit these into your activities. Talk through how she would like you to do them, and if you have any disagreements about these things, discuss them in a positive and loving way.

4. Following that, make sure you are consistent in following through with what you have agreed to do. Be consistent and show her that you are well capable of change, and you may also find that she responds in turn by changing some of her behaviours as well.