Friendship Sex Benefits?

For some time now I hear more and more young people involved in relationships of “friends with benefits” (FWB) rather than traditional relationships. Such relationships are a kind of platonic friends that principle was forgotten. Meet friends of the opposite sex, have sex, may also participate in some activities and fun together, but so, no feelings, no responsibilities and no expectations.

I thought that the phenomenon of “friends with benefits” does not exist except in a world of Hollywood movies and American university campus until I saw my friends also contemplating the possibility of an election. Modern woman, always on the run, choose from commodity or else to accept the lack of a relationship based solely on sex. The only condition is to be based on trust that characterizes a friendship, and a tacit understanding that no one should expect more than that. Friendship sexual side is convenient for both.

A relationship of this kind fails to meet basic physical needs of our partners, but can not answer the need for affection. At the risk of sounding outdated, we must ask: can anyone settle for too long just physical satisfaction? For how long can separate the physical from the emotional side? What happens when you’re in such a relationship, you want more, and yet you know you have no right to ask?

The attraction of such a relationship is easy to understand. When life you seem calculated to the minute, it’s good to know that when you want sex, call your friend. It is to you in half an hour (or you to it), and a few hours later you can put to sleep quiet and focus on things that interest you. No need to worry about with a question like “should I wait to call him or call him?”, “Have we made a good impression?” “Does he like me?” etc.. Everything is a little easier.

A friend involved in this kind of relationship  explained her situation and why it works for her the  FWB system. Why did I choose such a relationship? For example, at least in my situation in a big city, in a situation where I spend 10 hours a day at work and the rest of the time I split it between projects, studies and other paraphernalia, there is not enough time to establish a relationships. Excluding from the start that by some miracle I could manage to come across a man “good.” So it goes on “any can make you happy”, and here it is framed and a “friend” of this kind, that’s there when you need it. The good thing is that there are no complications to a relationship, no need to take time and especially, to socialize, to fight to get into the bars of his friends, family, etc.. Do not expect anything from him, and he nothing to you, which makes the situation very convenient and relaxing at the same time. For that, of course, feel free to continue to try looking on “the one”, or how he would be called today.