Get Ready for The Marital Life
by Before getting married it is always good to remain prepared for the marital life.
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Most of the people are under the misconception that getting ready for the marital life means getting ready for a sexual life.On getting the news that you are going to get engaged, even your friends sometimes sarcastically make a comment upon you that you are going to lose your freedom once and for all and for a few months you may not even have time to meet them since you are going to be preoccupied with your personal life. It is not entirely true. Despite sex being the part of the marital life, it does not pre-dominate the marital life.
Entering into a marital life means that you are entering into a higher plane of relationship.Whether your marriage is a love marriage or an arranged marriage, you are going to have a partner, to share your works, feelings, thoughts and the responsibilities.
Now you are more concerned here about a vital question, how to remain prepared for the forthcoming marital life. Some of you may even ask, after all life is a learning process, why don’t you remain your true self and learn anything new after entering into the marital life and getting adjusted accordingly?
You know pretty well that planning is very vital in every venture and every part of your life.Your marital life is no exception.
In case of a love marriage, you are blessed and doubly advantageous since you have an opportunity to know about your life partner before hand, his or her income, his or her interests, his or her likes and dislikes, his or her characteristic qualities and so on. You get to know all these things by having frequent interaction with him or her, when you are in love with him or her.
If you are getting a life partner through an arranged marriage, it is always better to have a series of interactions with your fiancée before the marriage so that you can feel at ease when you enter the marital home. Moreover, such interactions will also help you to find out any bogus claims made by your future life partner so that you can be on guard against him or her.
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Post Commentken bultman
On August 10, 2009 at 5:13 am
You offer sage advice to those who have yet to take the plunge.
Rajiv Sighamony
On August 10, 2009 at 7:05 am
nice tips, especially the last two paragraphs.
Daisy Peasblossom
On August 10, 2009 at 8:01 am
A good sexual life won’t quite take care of everything. Otherwise, well done, with good advice.
Jenny Heart
On August 10, 2009 at 8:57 am
Thought provoking article. Understanding is an important key to a successful marriage.Like it!
ladybaby
On August 10, 2009 at 9:04 am
This type of training needs to be included in our schools. It is a wise way to approach marriage. Great article.
Uma Shankari
On August 10, 2009 at 10:20 am
Good tips.
\”Inure\” : to accustom to hardship, difficulty, pain, etc.; toughen or harden; habituate (usually fol. by to): inured to cold. (From dictionary).
I guess you mean \’accustomed\’
papaleng
On August 10, 2009 at 10:22 am
I should have read this 30 yrs. ago.. Great post!
CHAN LEE PENG
On August 10, 2009 at 11:40 am
Great tips, and thought-provoking article. Well done, and have my liked it.
Brenda Nelson
On August 10, 2009 at 11:43 am
learning how to deal with others is very importing, not being selfish or self centered.. learning to share, listen, and compromise. Good link!
George W Whitehead
On August 10, 2009 at 3:56 pm
I’m on my second attempt at marriage at the moment. Will give you a few tips when I manage to work it out!
deep blue
On August 10, 2009 at 6:44 pm
Very workable tips for those who will be tying the knot again or the first time around.
Ruby Hawk
On August 10, 2009 at 9:22 pm
Anyone getting married needs all the advice and help offered.
giftarist
On August 10, 2009 at 9:57 pm
Wow! Great post! Thanks for sharing these wonderful tips!
sheema
On August 10, 2009 at 9:58 pm
marriage is a very complicated thing. sometimes even if u aaply all these things in your marriage and a dozen others even then its a disaster because its a two way thing, one person’s compromise and taking care of all the stuff so as not to give the spouse a chance to complaint is not fair. both have to live on some principles.
Ramalingam
On August 10, 2009 at 10:14 pm
This is to Ms Sheema.You are absolutely right.Even if a person scrupulously follow these tips sometimes something may go awry.But, these tips are actually meant to both a future bride as well as a bridegroom.These tips can be successful provided both have a complete understanding, reciprocate each other, ready to give in and adjust with each other.Thank you for your comments.
Goblins09
On August 11, 2009 at 3:03 am
Great tips there, certainly wise and sound advice for anyone taking the plunge
like you say, understanding, reciprocation and adjustment are some real keys to happy times.
ellenhart
On August 12, 2009 at 11:17 am
I loved reading these tips
chitragopi
On August 12, 2009 at 12:24 pm
Well thought of. Effective suggestions.