Great Lines
by People have learned and passed from one to the next some really great lines to use on the opposite sex that while sound great have no meaning because there is no truth in it coming from them, Don’t fall for it!
Men and women use compliments like drinking water so long as they think they may get something out of it in return. Some only seek mental or emotional gratification while others seek the physical gratification that in some cases are disturbing. Flirting is a lead on into other ideas and places one may not wish to go. It’s hard enough to know what a person is like when you spend quality time with them, but when one flirts on line or by phone you really don’t know anything about the individual you are dealing with. They can say anything to you and you either take their word for it or you don’t, but you have no way of knowing for sure just what you are getting yourself in to.
Many of their lines are: “You look beautiful/handsome,” after having seen a mere picture of you that could be many years old or of someone else all together. “You deserve better,” after telling them something that may bother you for any reason. “Age is nothing but a number,” when you tell them you are older than them and it wouldn’t work between you. “I love old fashioned men/women,” for any reason given but in reality the age difference and being old fashioned does make a big difference in how you view life around you. “I love someone for their personality not looks,” which means they are lying to you or to themselves or both because as soon as someone better looking comes along they will leave you in a heart beat and never think twice about it. “I’m looking for a woman to take care of the house and household stuff nothing more,” which means they are looking for a mother to do maid service, cook and runner with little to no benefits as a girl friend or wife. “I’m looking for a man to take care of me,” which means she’s looking for a sugar daddy to pay all her bills while she cheats on him. Endearments like sweetheart, lover, sexy, my love, my heart, etc. are meaningless to most all of them because they use these words as a tool to gain what ever they want out of you.
Only time and working at a relationship will make it grow and prosper into something beautiful and long lasting. Most people aren’t interested in lasting relationships regardless of what they say. They want to have fun and when the fun is gone they will be too. If your partner refuses to discuss your future together and you are doing most of the concessions in your relationship get out or make your partner leave and don’t listen to their lies any longer before they completely shatter your dreams and your heart.
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