Guide to Girls

First things first, the definition of dating a girl and have a girlfriend.
Dating: When you date a girl, you take them out to movies, dinners, ect. You are not officially in a relationship but are getting to know each other in a close, intimate way.
Girlfriend: When you are officially dating a girl; you take these girls on dates, but also are tied into a relationship where cheating counts. You typically buy these girls gifts for special occasions.

Secondly, guys, make sure you have self-confidence. Girls like guys who have self-confidence. Meaning you are comfortable with who you are, what you look like, how you dress, ect. Now, girls don’t like it when guys have too much self-confidence; when you act like, “Yeah, I get all the girls. I have a huge slong and bitches love me.” That’s actually a great way to detract girls, so just have a good proportion of self-confidence and being humble.

The Guide

Step #1.) Read the above.

Step #2.) Find a girl you find attractive, but one you think you might have a shot with.

Step #3.) Talk to the girl you have selected for a few days. Find out small things such as if they are single, their name, if they have any siblings. Just find out smaller stuff in the beginning, if you start dating a girl then you can find out bigger things.

Step #4.) Once you’ve talked to the girl for a few days, if you get the feeling she might be interested in you (you’ll know), then ask her out on a date. The worst she can say is “No.”
Step #5.) If she agrees to the date, then make a plan for when it should happen. I suggest

maybe taking her to a movie, dinner, or both. However, guys, make sure that YOU pay for the first date at least. You can also buy her flowers, but DO NOT shower her with gifts. That is an almost guaranteed way to creep a girl out. So keep whatever you may buy her small.

Step #6.) Keep the date…umm…appropriate. Don’t start talking about sex, be perverted, or be an asshole. I’d like to say that I actually prefer snuggling, holding hands, kissing more than I do sex. I don’t think there is a greater feeling out there than just having a girl hold you or vice-versa. Be a gentleman, hold doors open for her and all that cliché shit, it works.

Step #7.) Just in general have a good time with her. Don’t let there be awkward silences, make her laugh, and just be your (presentable) self.

Step #8.) When the date is over, take her home. Don’t try and stay afterwards unless she wants you to.

Step #9.) Once you have parted ways with her after the date, make sure you talk to her again soon. This could the next day or even on MySpace later that night with simple comments like, “I had fun tonight, thanks for going out with me.”

Step #10.) If you made a good impression and she likes you, she will either ask you to be her boyfriend or let you know she would like to go on another date. Then repeat and just treat her like a man should treat a women.

It normally takes me a few days after a good date to officially enter a relationship with a girl, and it shouldn’t be too different from you. If you need to, take her out on another date and then maybe ask her if she would like to be your girlfriend.